The Sugar Seas.....

So the sugar day dates are over, phew! That was a long few days!

On the first evening I had the pleasure of meeting beautiful honey baby our fellow sugar baby blogger, If I could link to her blog I would, but I'm useless at these things - I didn't get blonde hair for nothing ;-) We drank champagne and got admired by a room full of sugar daddy's, but we were more interested in telling each other our sugar quests than hunt down fresh sugar.

There was a few problems with the underground in London, so I had to do a 'Mr Date' on a few of my potentials which sucked, I really don't like to let people down. Of course I apologised, and they asked to re-arrange.

So out of the guys I met, I am very interested in Mr Perfect and Mr Shot Myself In The Foot! Mr perfect and I had the loveliest date Ive ever had, a lunch date that lasted 4 hours. Yes, that's right, FOUR whole hours......

We met at a Harrods department store, he has a apartment around the corner and called this his 'corner shop'..... That's it, right there. That is what I want. I want to call Knightsbridge 'my road' , Harrods my 'corner shop', Nobu my 'cafe'!

When I arrived he was already there, as I had to walk so freaking far (due to the underground) in the most inappropriate shoe situation you have ever seen. I had on an all black outfit consisting of black leggings, a black long frilled shirt, a little caramel fur jacket and my caramel long over the knee boots - perfect!

But, as you can imagine, not so perfect for walking over cobbles trying to find your way to Harrods. I giggled, when I passed a 6 star hotel and the door man called me over. I walked over, teetering on the cobbled street, and he asked me for my autograph, pen and notepad in hand. Hilarious. WTF is that all about!! I cocked my head like some kind of confused poodle, looking like an airhead unintentionally while ignoring the question, asking him the way to Harrods. He asked me if id like a lift in the Rolls Royce, to which I declined and followed his directions. Crazy start to the morning already :-)

After hopping into the express lift and whizzing myself up to the top floor restaurant I saw a figure stand up as I approached the table, it was Mr perfect. We sat down and I said "I don't usually look so red and sweaty" as id walked so far, he laughed and ordered me some sparkling water. We drank wine, ate the most lovely 3 course lunch, talked and talked and talked some more. I found out so much about him, and I am so glad I spotted him from his incognito profile. He is like a diamond in the sh*t, covered by a crappy one liner profile :-)

It started to get dark, and I realised we had been sat there for hours. People had come, ate and gone, come ate and gone, including some of the royal family, who were apparently sat on the next table but I didn't even notice... He thanked me, payed on a black American Express, and asked me to see him again some time. A few hours later, I text him and we have spoken and will meet again for lunch next week. Yay :-)

Mr Shot Myself On The Foot is at the front of my mind too, and we are also meeting next week. I am still interested in Mr K, as unfortunately I didn't get to meet him. He seems promising and down to earth, so I will re arrange.

I have to say, i am loving the sugar dating at the moment. It seems like there are so many more quality, diamond sugar daddy men around, maybe its the calm of the storm after the economic downturn? Maybe its the ripple, of the great sea of sugar that is coming our way. All I know is I'm going to be at the top, riding that wave on a pink diamond encrusted surf board!

Till later Sugars, Love Baby Bow xx

The Sugar days are coming... plus more contenders!!

After my blanket coverage of e-mails described in my last post, my little inbox is still reaping the rewards with reply, after reply after reply. All makes for a very excited Sugar Baby. Although I am slightly concerned that I may have squeezed too many contenders into just two days....

Ive had to buy myself a cute pink Moleskine notebook to keep up - So organised, So unlike me!

So to add to the list of Potentials I am meeting over the coming sugar week, commencing tomorrow are, in no particular order...

Mr P.S - Mr PS, fairly blah/vanilla/ordinary, so much so that I just used initials as a name, but hopeful on the allowance front. Agreed to a 4-5K allowance, that's about a 7-8k allowance for you American baby's with the green bills :-) He wants to see me once or twice in London, and then take me on a business trip once or twice a month too for a night at a time. If first class travel is provided - I'm there. The only bad side to Mr P.S is the fact I'm not keen on his picture.... thats put me off.
Late 40's, don't get me wrong he isn't butt ugly, but he is not what I would usually go for. He looks like my doctor, and that's a bit weird. But, for allowance prospects alone he is worth a slot in sugar day one.

Meeting planned for Mr P.S - Sugar day one - Afternoon Coffee

Mr Gum Tree - Mr Gum Tree, named so as found on Gum Tree. Gum Tree is a website, a lot like Craig's List, where you can post pretty much anything. While looking around, I decided to check out the 'guys seeking girls' section - hit up a quick search for 'Sugar, Daddy, Beneficial, Arrangement' and out came Mr Gum Tree. A bit of correspondence later, a meeting planned. Is happy with monthly allowance, but didn't talk figures.... not a lot more info to give - watch this space.

Mr Gum Tree - Sugar day not yet confirmed.

Mr K: Mr K, after a few messages sent back and forth on Seeking Arrangement.com, we have decided to have dinner. I like his photo, and he seems quite kind and genuine. No talk of allowance yet, I will bring that up at dinner.

So tomorrow is the start of the sugar week. Sugar Day one: This is my itinerary!

1pm - Lunch in at a Steak House with Mr Suspenders.

Mr Suspenders has agreed to up allowance to 2,500 British Pounds per month. This secured the lunch date, and I like steak.

3pm - Drinks with Mr P.S

Evening - Drinks with fellow sugar baby blogger, Honey Baby... whilst keeping an eye out for those near by Sugar Daddy's :-)

Il then be taking off my sugar overdosed tiara, and having a sleep before I wake up, and Sugar Day two - the busiest of all commences!

Sugar Day two: Itinerary.

1pm - Lunch Date with Mr Perfect at a Knightsbridge Champagne and Oyster Bar

3.30PM - Drinks, hopefully not another lunch! With Mr Shot Myself In The Foot.

6.30pm - Dinner, with Mr K. Oyster bar.

8pm - full of too many oysters and probably more than a little bit tipsy, home!

So I shall of course update you on how these dates play out, there are some I am looking forward to more than others, but I'm a fair baby and if they have all got this far they deserve a chance. Ive never met more than one person in one day, so send me some sugar energy girlie's!

I don't think any of the dates will bring me any gifts. I never usually get gifts on the first date, like I know some sugar baby's do. I quite like this, as I know they don't expect anything from me, so neither do I from them. But of course a little gift is appreciative of your time.

I think, out of them all, Mr suspenders may bring me something (hopefully not a pair of suspenders)

From speaking to Mr Shot Myself In The Foot he is quite kinky. I say kinky but some of the things these sugar daddy's are into can be quite shocking, so its not actually that bad, fairly tame, but definitely a fetish. Because he has given me details of what he likes, I have thought of a little gift to bring him myself. It didn't cost me anything, but I know it will leave a lasting impression! :-)

So, if you see a little blonde baby running around London town over the next few days, stop and give me an expresso!

Wish me luck!

Love, From Baby Bow x x

There he was... Part Two!

There it was.........

A message from Mr Date 'Cant wait to meet you today Beautiful, Il be there at the bar'.

Thank goodness for that, I had finally nailed a date and now I wouldn't let anything stop me. Excitedly I got out of bed, and got myself ready for the date.

I wore skinny dark jeans with a long white vest top, Loubutins and Prada bag. My hair was freshly done from the salon the day before, so I was good to go. I felt a little nervous so I had a baileys coffee :-) Hehehe.

On the way to the date I prepped myself. I do this everyday even if its for no particular reason, I think of all the reasons I am so happy, and all of the things I want for the day. So in this case, it was a seamless journey into London, and a perfect, positive meeting with Mr Date. (If you haven't read 'The Secret' you should...but I could talk about positive thinking for hours so Il maybe post another time about this!)

The driver dropped me off outside of the restaurant, and I hopped out of the car. Little white linen covered tables were dotted outside, paparazzi were hanging around (I'm still not sure who for although I was discreetly looking all through Dinner!) and I could laterally smell the sugar in the air.

I walked into the resturant, taking in scenery and people watching as I went -

And there he was.......

I saw him sat at a table - took a wild guess and popped my bag onto the seat next to him while introducing myself. Luckily, it was him and he looked very friendly and I felt at ease right away.

We ordered some wine, and chatted for a few hours. In between talking we ate some delicious Seafood and Oysters, Steak and Champagne. I liked how easy he was to talk to, although believe me I never stop talking so maybe that was just me! But we laughed, while I offended him a few times in a jokey way, luckily he found this endearing and he warmed to me :-) He complimented me on how I looked, and when I declined another bite of Chocolate dessert as id 'have to spend an extra hour in Pilate's' he lightly patted me on the bum and told me I was perfect. ;-) I wouldn't say that was true, but very sweet indeed!

Half way through dinner we had the 'allowance' chat. Now, I had prepared myself for this and knew exactly what I wanted. I had a feeling as it was quite high he might negotiate down a little, which I was happy for as id over compensated so that we could do! My mind was running over time, thinking stay calm, natural, direct..... when he offers out his hand for a hand shake and comes right out with an amount - which is more than my highest starting point :-) Perfect.

So all in all, we had the perfect date. We agreed to start something, so I am officially his Sugar Baby. Our next meeting is next week, where I am going to a dinner event with him. We are then going shopping the following morning, so I am looking forward to that!

I am very happy that I persevered, I knew that it would work out. Mr Date is kind, attentive, genuine, real, and generous. He will take very good care of me, as I will him. Its time for chapter two.... !

Excited Hugs and Kisses,

Baby Bow x x x

There he was... Part One!

On the morning of date with the one and only Mr Date, as planned in my last blog entry:

The sound of my alarm fills the room, and I wonder for a few moments what day it is and what I am doing...

Feeling excited and full of butterfly's, I opened my eyes, remembered what day it was, and mentally prepared myself for the day ahead. As I looked over onto the table beside my bed, my blackberry was flashing red, to get my attention...

And there it was -

I sleepily opened the message, and felt my stomach knot as I read the words 'So sorry, I have to cancel tonight.....' It went on, but that was the real part that mattered, and I felt let down and silly that I had planned, prepared for, got excited over, 4 dates which were over before they had even started.

I'm not one to feel sorry for myself, so I went down to the salon where my extensions had arrived. During the 3 hours of bum achingly application, Mr Date had gotten in touch with me. We had a little chat over the phone, where I told him I wasn't a push over, and that I had plenty going on so it really wasn't such an issue if he had no intention of ever meeting, id just have rather known. He gave me the reasons, which I decided were credible and I gave him the benefit of the doubt and believed him - by the end I left the salon with a head full of European prisoners hair fused to my own, and a 5th date, with Mr Date planned.

Now, you may be thinking 4 let downs! 4 excuses! Would you have believed him? Would you have given up? Or would you have given him one last shot, a benefit of the doubt?

I decided to, because I wasn't sure why but I wanted to meet him. From our conversations, I had a feeling we would get along, and I believed he was worth the investment in. The investment of Patience. Now, I'm not saying its always the case - because there are some absolute time wasters around who are not worth your Patience, or even your time. But sometimes you get that feeling, that makes you think it could all be worth it, when you know, you know.... and you have to go with that.

(Also, I felt by now like I had personally invested in meeting Mr date, and I at least wanted that - if only a meeting. I had invested my time, my money on making myself look my best for our dates, work as id moved stuff around to fit, countless text message and phone conversations - many abroad which I get charged a ridiculous amount for, So I felt worth my while to pursue him)

I also belive, like I said in a previous post, that feeling anger and bad feeling towards someone is just like swallowing poison and expecting someone else to get sick. You can always forgive, but just dont forget.

So we had a new plan! The 5th new plan : Drinks at a bar, followed by Dinner at a famous restaurant in London. Following day.

There wasn't much to prepare left seeing as id already prepped every inch of myself. My teeth were whitened already, my skin exfoliated, moisturised, toned, my eyebrows shaped and tinted, my hair highlighted, my nails manicured, my skin hosed down with a spray of St Tropez and every last bit of remaining body hair stripped away. So all there was to do, was have a nice relaxing bath - I used a little face mask for that spa feeling, the face mask was one of those £1 ones you buy in the packaging just for one use! I think there just as good as any others and you can try them all! After I decided to get an early night, for a full and restful sleep.......

The sound of my alarm fills the room, and I wonder for a few moments what day it is and what I am doing....

Feeling excited and full of butterfly's, I opened my eyes, remembered what day it was, and mentally prepared myself for the day ahead. As I looked over onto the table beside my bed, my blackberry was flashing red, to get my attention....

And there it was............

(Part two tomorrow)

Love and hugs, Baby Bow x x x

First Date Mr Date soon!...

So the date with Mr date is near approaching, tomorrow night and I'm all, almost, ready.

The tan has been a sprayed, the nails have been frenched, the hair has been highlighted, the eyebrows tinted, waxed, and the extensions are being redone soon. Then il be going to get ready, hopping on that train (first class i think treating myself so I can look at the other SD types and indulge in a glass of wine!!) and il be there.

We are meeting in an upscale hotel, I said il meet him at the bar. I plan on being there earlier than I have said I will be (unfashionably, but I have a theory) The theory is, I don't like that feeling of walking into a bar, worse a busy bar, and just not having a clue who i'm looking for. My eye sight isn't always great at the best of times, so I don't want to be saying hello to every Tom, Dick and Harry!!!

So my idea is get there before, text to say 'oooops got here a bit early' and get myself a drink at the bar so I can relax and when he arrives he will be the one to spot and introduce himself to me. Perfection!

I'm not sure what we are doing after, I think going for dinner and drinks. I'm actually very nervous and I don't know why, I never get nervous ever not for anything else but when it comes to meeting someone like this who I haven't met before I get a butterfly tummy and a little scared to be honest..... eeeeek. But I will be confident, strong and charming!

So, Il take a quick picture before I head out so you fellow Facebook baby's can see my chosen date outfit and my hair!

Oh and i'm loving Chicago Sugar baby's new post - fabulous news and an exciting read. I will soon have a post just as exciting of my own (That's positive thinking right there, I'm into the positive thinking!)

Kisses, Baby Bow xxx

Monday Monday

Happy Monday everyone, I hope you all have had a sugar filled weekend!

Today, I updated my face-book with pictures of gifts and items I mention in this blog. I don't want it to look like I'm bragging, so I was a bit unsure of whether to do it or not, but seeing as most of you have and people have asked me too its only fun and I thought I would, I just don't want it to come across the wrong way! :-) Il add things to it, and I'm hoping il have plenty to add soon!

I'm hoping that my date comes off this week with Mr Date, I'm meeting him on Thursday evening and I'm looking forward to it. He has been very apologetic and says nothing will stop him meeting me, so I'm taking his word for it. Woke up to a cute good morning message too :-)

I'm feeling pretty confident about it, I think we have been planning to meet now for so long that nerves have been and gone, the only thing I'm worried about it having the allowance conversation face to face, as I'm used to talking about things like that online. I'm going to remain calm, and state exactly what figure I have in my head, and hopefully il get him to say first what he was thinking of, then we can lay our cards out on the table.

So its mission date now. This means that tomorrow I'm getting my nails done, maybe french or a nude shade followed by eyebrows waxed and tinted. Wednesday I'm getting my high lights done, and a sweeping side fringe cut in followed by a spray tan. Thursday I'm getting a new set of extensions put in, before the date. Phew! Thank goodness I am off work for the whole week.

I'm just going to go and eat now, Ive been good all day and I'm going for a run soon so I need to eat before I work out!

Lots of Kisses, Baby Bow xx

Mr Date!.....

Mr Date, is still dateless. I didn't give a formal introduction to him, so here is a little bit of background for you all. Another fellow sugar baby on here with her own blog sent me his details (I wont mention who because I am not sure if they wanted me to say or not!?) He sounded promising and genuine, and had shown great signs when she met him herself. He appeared very generous and I liked his picture, so I was quite excited at the prospect.

Since then, after a few great phone calls and lots of really, really sweet text messages, we arranged a date. The morning of the date, I got a text canceling. Bummer. Now this is a bummer for a variety of reasons - Reason A: Being stood up is always crap. Reason B: A girl spends a lot of time and £ before a date preparing - this time and £ then feels wasted Reason C: The trust we had in said gentleman and respect then slides a little, with out us really realising or even wanting it to. And personally I had a Reason D: I had just landed from a flight, and was planning on getting ready and going straight there - so I had in fact carried my date outfit and the like half way around the frigging world...

After the first let down I decided that 'these things happen' and to be honest I am a very laid back and easy going baby so reason A, B, C and D didn't put me off too much. After a little more correspondence we decided on another date - the lunch date. Up until the night before it was all planned, restaurant booked, travel arranged, I had done a lot of preening and grooming and I was excited. Next morning - No message or reply to my text, and I'm never one to hound somebody, I have too much dignity for that. So i had to let the lunch date slide.... as I hadn't even been informed of a time, place etc....

Again, I got over reason A, B and C, and after profuse apologies from Mr Date (His phone was in a meeting on silent - I don't know what that has to do with missing a whole date but maybe I'm missing something?!) I set aside some of my time the following week to meet him. Third time lucky?....

This time, I had actually been planning on going away to see a friend who has just had a baby. But, when Mr date suggested this particular day, I didn't want to put yet another barrier in the way of our date. So I didn't make plans, and I left my day fully open for him. I got a phone call each day, and always a text - saying how he was looking forward to seeing me so much, and so on. So, the very day before the date, I text to ask when and where he would like to meet - ZERO response, ZERO apology, ZERO anything.

In a normal sugar dating situation, I would write this off as one of those absolute waste timers, wasting their own time as well as mine. But, I do not understand how this guy could be so full of prospects for one baby, and then be the complete opposite for me... So this keeps me intrigued.

Why would he bother, with the calls, the emails, the text messages, the booked restaurants, the plan making, the effort - If he isn't serious about meeting a sugar baby.

The most annoying was the fact that two days later and I still hadn't received anything. That shows a lack of respect for other peoples time which I deem as very, very rude. As a sugar baby I expect to be kept informed, I even expect to be let down a little, but I never ever expect to be kept in the dark about my own plans. If you make an appointment anywhere in life, you keep it or you cancel it. Simples.

So, I decided to send him a message. I was very kind and sweet, I try to never argue or get mad, its such a waste of energy, feeling mad is like swallowing poison and expecting someone else to get sick from it. In my message I wrote along the lines of 'Mr Date, I sincerely hope you are OK after not hearing from you. I would not have minded if you hadn't wanted to meet me for what ever reason, but not taking the time to cancel, let alone the lack of any apology since, I have found very rude. Its a shame, because I had a good feeling about you and you seemed like a genuine guy.' something like that anyway....

So I got a message back saying that he had a massive phone issue, hadn't been able to get in touch, is very lucky that I text him so he can now get in touch..... This to me smells a little bit like sugar coated bull shit, but I have had a similar issue before so I will give the benefit of the doubt.

So, Bow will get ready for yet another date with Mr date.

Shame on you if you fool me once, shame on me if you fool me twice... or three, times ;-) Lets hope it ends there!

Keep you Updated!

Love, Baby Bow x

Can the stars be wrong? Is retail therapy always right?

After a good nights sleep in my own bed, which is always a luxurious feeling, I woke up to feel a little anxious about my lunch date ahead. I had a feeling, right from it being set the night before, that it wasn't going to happen - and that feeling was right.

I hadn't heard much from the gentleman in question - so I decided to call it off myself. I am not living in London at the moment, and traveling down to London just for lunch is one thing... Traveling down to London when your not sure your even meeting anyone just for lunch is entirely another.

So - what can a girl do when she feels a little disappointed? Shop. And Spray Tan.

Remember those Loubutins that Mr NY bought for me, the ones that didn't fit? Well I managed to send them back to netaporter and get a store online receipt which I hadn't yet used - so I bought myself a beautiful new pair of suede 'deva 120' fringed boots by Louboutin. You can see them in the picture, in sand colour. Just gorgeous. They are $1,095, (i love buying in $, it looks loads and then you work it out in £'s and 'feel' like its a bargain!) a little less than the ones Mr NY bought for me. Perfect result.

Talking of Mr NY, I wonder how he is? I really liked him it was such a shame he is so far away, and there wouldn't be enough opportunities to see him for an ongoing arrangement. He was hot, in my eyes anyway, I would have been major attracted to him with or without the sugar, which is always nice!

Then, after the boots (which honestly took me about 2 hours to choose because I couldn't decide) I went and had my eyebrows tinted, and a St Tropez spray tan. How can a girl feel sad with bronzed skin, dark neat eyebrows, and new shoes :-D

To end the afternoon on a better note, I have also made new plans that I hope will stick with the lunch date for a weeks time.

I'm out now with some girlfriends, have a great weekend all...

Love, Baby Bow xx

Its in the stars...

I have had a busy week so I'm sorry for the lack of updates, but il get right to that now!

This week I have been in South Africa, where I spent a few nights. While I was there, I bumped into the England and Australian cricket teams, who were staying in the same hotel as I was. We managed to hustle a few tickets for the match, and party with the players after in the bar! Lots of fun of course, and it took me a few days to recover. A few of them are pretty hot, but all mostly married and not good SD material!

While I was over there, i got my teeth whitened professionally by my dentist there. Its loads cheaper than the UK/USA and just amazing. My teeth are now really white and clean looking, when the dentist showed me the chart I was actually already number 2 on the whiteness scale already, but now I'm off the chart! I also had a little veneer fitted over a small chip on my front tooth, it hadn't actually bothered me as id had it for years, but when the dentist pointed it out I thought why not! It cost around 1800 rand for it all which is about $235 0r £146 - bargain!

I didn't have my date last night, as my potential pulled out at the last minute. I'm meeting him tomorrow for a lunch date, so hopefully that will go well...

To be honest I was going to cancel it as I feel pretty rushed as I've only just got home, and il be going away again soon... but then I read my horoscope!!

' Give some serious thought to your finances. Solutions to problems link to meetings you plan for Friday'

How strange is that! Loves it, so the lunch date is back on....

I have never had a lunch date before, I always feel better in the evening as I look my best dressed up, and of course its more acceptable to have a few more glasses of wine the later it is!

So I'm planning on having my hair big and wavy, my make up natural, I'm going to get up early and have a st Tropez spray tan before I go to meet him.

I'm going to wear black leggings or black trousers with a cream tunic top I have, its really pretty and it has a lace and black sequin bow design to the front. Il wear it with a long nude coloured cardigan, my Louboutins, and a grey prada bag.

What do you all think? I'm going for a classy look, maybe il take a picture and pop it onto my baby bow facebook profile so that those who are my friends can see. On the subject of facebook, I have had loads of requests from people with pictures but no mention of what blog they have? I am only accepting people who have a SB blog that I read, as I want to remain pretty anonymous :-)

Well I'm off to boxing class now, to try and tone up! Il update again later as there was more I wanted to write...

Loving everyones posts by the way.

Love, Baby Bow xx

Dreams...

I have been in L.A for a few days, I just got back to the UK last night and I'm jet lagged!

In L.A I spent a lot of time relaxing, I went to get my nails done (clear natural gel which I have since painted with a nude glitter, and one corner of my thumb nail fell off already, crappy L.A nail salon :-)

I went shopping a little, bought a few nice things from forever 21 and the little boutiques I love to visit when I'm over there. I enjoyed the sunshine, and then in was time to fly home again.

Ive been thinking about the next year a lot, and I have many plans. I am so full of dreams and aspirations, my ambitions never stop growing. I always want to improve my self, my knowledge. I plan on making as many of my dreams come true over the next year, and I know that i can do it. I also know I cant do all of this in one year, I'm not superwoman, but il give it my best shot!

My to do list 1010:

• Learn to fly a light aircraft



• Start a degree



• Learn Chinese



• Have a steady sugar relationship



• Live back in London
  

Many of them are personal goals, not at all sugar related... but I know the sugar dating will help me to get there faster and with ease. And I love it. Plus, I'm kind of bored of being single, I really just want one guy to focus all this attention on right now....

Speaking of Sugar, I have a little date soon. Don't want to update too much but I will update after with good news..............

I have only had one day at home and tomorrow I'm going again to South Africa, I'm going to get my teeth whitened there which I'm looking forward to. Ive been working out lots to look good for my date, and I'm hoping that will add an extra sparkle!

Baby Bow xx

On the rocks...

Well I got back from my date with Mr Ice Hockey so I thought id give a little update.

To be honest this date was more like your regular meeting, of the unsweetened variety. I'm still pretty sure I had to meet him on SugarDaddie.com as this is the address I use for my sugar msn. Hmmmm.

This guy should not have been on that site. Fair enough, he was good looking, very fit, in his thirties, picked me up in a very nice car and had a good house. He has his own business now, and he probably earns a very good wage. But... in no way the kind we are looking for. Just in a well off, comfortable way. I cant see where the extra would be to spoil me, or another baby.

All in all we had a very enjoyable evening. We ate Italian food, had conversation, drank too much wine, I actually was really attracted to him and stayed the night with him. We had sex, which may sound slutty as it was a 'first date' but I genuinely wanted too, I hadn't for a little while as I hate one night stands, and I am very picky with who I sleep with.... here I had a perfect opportunity to get me some from a very fit man. Hate it or love it, sometimes a girl needs to think like a guy! And by the way.............. it was A M A Z I N G .

The next day he made me breakfast, we hung out and then I asked for him to take me home. After a leisurely drive back, he kissed me and dropped me home. Ive spoken to him a little over text, and I think id see him again. But he is in no way a sugar daddy, so my search is still on!

Love Baby Bow x

Sugar Hair, Sugar Beauty....

You remember my previous post about the ex ice hockey player, the one who mysteriously appeared on my msn messenger, and I'm not sure where from? I suspect SugarDaddie.com...

Well we have been in touch a little over the past week, and seeing as he is near by to me, and he seems like a genuine guy, we are going out tomorrow.

I'm going to go for dinner with him, and then for a few drinks. He lives over an hour away so I may stay over with him (assuming we are getting along well of course and he doesn't seem like a psycho/bunny boiler/ axe murderer/ masked murderer etc) I have already made it quite clear it wouldn't be 'like that' and i expect to stay in his spare room :-)

I am thinking of wearing a really cute cream crochet summer dress I got from forever 21 in L.A... I love it in there by the way, you baby's from the states might feel differently because you get to use it all the time, but for fellow British or European baby's its so cool, no body ever knows where what your wearings from at home and you never bump into any one wearing the same outfit, plus its sooooo cheap and they change stock all the time!
Il probably pair it with a tan leather waist belt, and tan or leopard print gladiator sandals. I'm only 5'3 so I do like to wear heels, but I know were going to be walking between places so I thought id go for casual but cute flats.

Then il take a little grey short cover-up just in case it turns cooler. Il wear black lace lingerie... not that i plan on any body seeing it ;-) I'm thinking big and bouncy waves in my blonde hair, and il re-do my hair extensions tonight ready.

Speaking of hair extensions if you like them too hear are my favorites, I use Jessica Simpson hairdo for at work, so easy clip in clip out and as long as your colour is a good match they can look really professional. Usually for the weekend or a few days, up to a week, il glue in my hair. I buy my hair in wefts from a wholesalers, buy plastic based white hair glue, and glue them on. I have quite fine hair so I only use one double weft, but you can use more. Running your hot ghd's closed but over the bond will fix it better onto your hair. They come out easy with conditioner and a comb, and I always find this the easiest way.... I hate feeling a head full of clips especially on a date.... what if he tries to run his fingers through your hair?? Aghhhh!

I like to have my hair big, and loose curls. A little like Jessica Simpson or Alex Curran, at the moment I'm loving Heidi Montag massive blonde hair, that's very much my style. I think the best way to go about it is using heated rollers, rather than a barrel tong. Although both can work well. I don't know if you get this in the states but 'Dust It from Schwarzkopf is one of the best products ever for hair like this. Its like a powder, comes in a cute little red shaker, you put it on your roots or where you need volume....lift...and voila! Huge hair!

I also like to look on you tube for cute tips on hair and step by step guides, its pretty useful.

Id love to hear what you fellow baby's like to wear on first dates, how do you like your hair? Any good tips? I love sharing tips!

I didn't really know what to write about today so I hope that was ok and someone found it useful!

Love Baby Bow x

Naughty Plans...

So I'm back from L.A, I had such a great time and it was so fun to hang out and shop, i spent far too much money, I really need to find my SD soon!

Well, a few things have changed since I last wrote. Mr NY who I liked so much, is quieter than normal, sending me a few quick e-mails but no phone calls. He said he had been sick, but is better now, but still he is not acting as interested as he usually does. As well as that, it doesn't seem that il be able to get to NY as much as I would have hoped, compared to other places in the USA so I'm not sure this international piece of sugar will work out.... Il keep him going for a little while and see if he gets in touch more...

But... Mr BA. Well, I'm a little excited, as I'm flying out to L.A again on Tuesday, and Mr B.A is in town (I didn't realise but as well as Miami he has a place in OC, right on the beach!) So I'm going to meet with him. Were going to go for drinks and something to eat, and then I might invite him back to my hotel as long as things are going well. Ive already said id like him to bring me a gift and il make sure the chemistry is right before I make any naughtier plans!

My naughtier plans include going to Victoria's Secret the day before I meet with him, buying some killer lingerie, and putting on a little sugar show for him...

Ive asked him to pick my up from my hotel, he has a Porsche, and then we can go from there. I'm a little nervous, but I'm sure il be fine. IL have a shot or something before hand to calm my nerves :-) Il also make sure someone knows where I am, and send a few texts to update people on my whereabouts, better to be safe than sorry hey!

So wish me luck, and I will keep all the baby's updated on how it goes. I better come home with some Louboutins! (I was thinking of sending him a link to some I like online, so that he can bring them with him - do you think this is a good idea?!)

Well I am off for dinner with some friends now, Ive been feeling really unwell since I got back from L.A and I've practically not left my house!

Speak soon,
Love Baby Bow x

Finding a man of mint...

If like me...you are looking for a minted man, then I have a few tips I have picked up from other successful baby's and I shall pass them on :-)

Now, finding the Daddy of Sugar. Personally, I like to use websites such as seeking arrangement and sugardaddie.com. I find them the best of their kind, and although there are some unfortunate men, there are also many diamonds to be found!

I have also heard of other Sugar Baby's using Craig's list, but I have not tried this. Even some using Gum Tree, again, its not something I have tried out myself.

When you have found the guy you like, and a date is mentioned, think about the kind of situation you would prefer? On the one hand, some baby's like to meet for a coffee (quick, easy, and you may allow for multiple dates in one day, so go easy on the caffeine!) or on the other hand you may prefer to be wined and dined and make a fabulous evening of it.

I think both have advantages, a quick coffee means that you can leave pretty quickly if he has the looks of a bulldog and the wallet of a tramp. But a long dinner will lead to many clues to show you the guys wealth, and also you will get the chance to dress up and show how you are first class arm candy of the best possible kind!

I always think its good to keep a look out for;
A coutts bank card
A black American Express
A nice pair of shoes, classic wallet, and an expensive watch
Good fitting clothes

It is also important to watch the way your date interacts with people like the waiters, and bar staff... another tip when planning where to go is to ask him where he usually likes to go - and then pray its not pizza express.

This may all seem a little over the top or untrusting, but lets be honest there are some idiots out there who think you will get all dressed up and spend your time with them for absolutely nothing, without even a mention of our old friend Louis.

I personally like to speak about the 'arrangement' details, money...times per month...expectations etc before any meeting, as this saves your time if they are clueless and also is less awkward and you can then concentrate on having a fantastic night.

Love Baby Bow x

Wait all day for a bus.... Then four come along at once

Hello sugar girls and boys,

Thought id give a little update, I am going to try and write at least once or twice a week to keep it interesting, I hate reading blogs and then they go quiet I feel like I'm in suspense to find out what happened! So Ill try to not do that with this one...

The international search is going well. Why is it you wait all day for a bus, then four come along at once! Well, I have this but the buses are in fact rich sugar daddy men, the bus ticket is allowances, and the bus stop is the comfort of my own home ;-)

I have been chatting to yet another potential, who is from Boston. So depending on how dates go with BA and NY, a trip to Boston may be on the cards.

The guy is good looking, wants to see me 1-2 times per month and when he comes to the UK, and is happy with an allowance etc. He seems genuine and reliable and is very polite and sweet. I haven't actually seen a picture yet, but he works out and says he is considered attractive by many.

I'm holding out for Mr NY to be honest... he is my favorite. He is so hot, and I really think I could get it all from him if I play my cards right... Only time, and a meeting will tell.

I'm glad that I am chatting to a few and keeping my options open, I'm still not sure how many I would like, but I think two is a good amount and do-able! I have also been thinking a lot about allowance amounts, and what is too much, too little... What do you ask your sugar daddy's for, and how do you justifie it?

Love Baby Bow x

Introducing Mr NY...

After introducing Mr BA yesterday, I thought I would introduce my next potential international sugar. Mr NY... yes you guessed it, Located in NY.

Like B.A, I am planning on meeting him in July.

Now, Mr NY is different to Mr B.A in many ways, firstly he has a lesser net worth and income (but still well able to be a sugar daddy for me) and he seems much warmer, and more genuine. I have a feeling he is a good person... He is very well known in what he does, and well respected but unlike B.A he is married.

This does bother me in a very small way, Il be honest, like a little niggling in the back of my mind. But my motto is, I'm not the one who is married. Surely the worry should really lie in his shoulders, and not mine.

I have enjoyed speaking to NY, and I have seen quite a few pictures of him and OMMMG I am attracted to him that is for sure. So far, so good for NY.

I'm trying to arrange my month, and how and when I'm going to fit these two dates in. I do have more potentials, but I'm focusing on these two and keeping the others chatting away until the time is right for them...

In both of these places, I know my way around a little and I know a few good places to go, but obviously only through a tourists eyes. Do you think it would be a good idea to get the potentials to meet me in my hotel bar/lobby and take me from there to our date... or meet them in chosen bar/restaurant?

What do you think are good first sugar dates? What do you like to do the first time you meet a potential?

Love Baby Bow x