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Yesterday I committed a cardinal sin of sugar dating, or well, dating in general.

I didn't realise id done it until it was too late...

DUN

DUN

DUN!

I wore the same outfit! EEEK¬! :-)

By the time I got to my date with 'Mr Date' it was early afternoon. We met at a well known hotel in London, and I saw him as soon as I walked into the lobby. He was dressed smartly like always and greeted me with a hug.

We decided to get something to eat in the restaurant inside hotel, for ease and because we were both hungry by now.

The restaurant was a kind of Chinese with a twist, where they served Asian flavoured burgers if such things exist. I went for a plate of rice with shrimp and chicken, and Mr Date went for a big bowl of noodles.

I have to admit the date was dire. If this had been the first time I had met him, we would have never met again. Conversation was almost all one sided, and as I chatted away he stared blankly at me or checked his blackberry that was persistently bleeping.

He told me he was very happy to see me, but the atmosphere pointed to the contrary. Lunch felt rushed and I was with him for all of about an hour. The only saving grace he had was that he did mention he had a lot going on that day, business wise, and he seemed a little apprehensions about that.

It made me wonder, did we ever get along very well, or did I look at our chemistry with rose tinted glasses? Maybe, but I'm sure he was making minimum effort possible yesterday.

Mr Date is being laid to rest in my sugar world, and he joins the sugar grave yard of past potentials, who tried, but failed to win me over.

It was as I walked out of the hotel, that I started thinking about my next meeting with 'G', and it was then I realised I was committing the shameful outfit crime. Luckily, I am sure 'G' is probably the least fashion or outfit savvy man around, and whilst I'm sure he appreciates a women who looks good - I doubt he takes into account details and features of ones outfit.

Luckier still, the outfit as you may recall from my previous post was pretty inconspicuous and casual, Black tunic, Biker boots, Cashmere Coat. I still felt I needed one little thing to change the look, and once I looked in my bag I realised I could fix myself up a little wardrobe on the go!

In my bag I had some Kirby grips, so I secured my hair all to one side in a chignon.

I then found my Chanel pearls hanging around in my bag, 3 strands white pearls with a Chanel black bow, and the Chanel white flower with a discreet and gold 'cc' on one of its petals. I took of my McQueen scarf (RIP McQueen, sad news, admired artist) and added the pearls. I hope this made the same outfit look different enough to get away with!

I had a few hours to spare before I met G, so whats a girl to do. Well when in London, shop! I headed to the flagship Topshop on Oxford Circus and picked myself up a Christopher Kane for Topshop brown lace dress in the sale it was £15 what a bargain... I also made a mental note to come back here and have eyelash extensions done in their eyelash bar in store.

By now my feet hurt but I soldier on and Arrive at out meeting point (One thing I like about G is that he meets me in very convenient places and is relaxed with regards to where) I was still a little early, so whats a girl to do? That's right. I found a Dune shoes and was in the shop looking at the prettiest flat sandals covered in crystals when he called me.

Outside the store I noticed him, and it was quite funny watching him when he didn't realise I could see, ehehehe evil me. So I went over, gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek (ONE kiss on one cheek, I remembered from last time. I always do the two kisses, one on each cheek and I think again this shows a difference in hmmmm....cant think of the word... CLASS sounds awful. But that's kind of what I mean...?) I dont mean to come across as a snob because I am not, and I dont care about peoples backgrounds and walk of life, im just very observent so I notice things like that.

We decided to go to a local sports bar. Very laid back and down to earth and we drank beer and I nibbled on chicken wings and hot sauce. I actually had one million times more fun with G than with Mr Date, and I think we spent a few hours in there.

G bought up the face-to-face allowance talk, which was much appreciated. He has had a similar relationship in the past, and he told me her allowance - quite causally - was 2.5k a week. He made a point of saying that was after a long time together and they were very happy, but its just nice to know he has that potential I suppose. To be honest, that's more than I ever imagine. But it is nice to imagine.

I had such a great time with G that I decided I was too hasty last week, and I'm very glad that we met again. He is an absolute gentleman and I don't feel any pressure to sleep with him, or to look spotless at all times - I though as I had hot sauce all over my mouth at one point :-)

I think this counts for something, and he made it clear everything is on my terms, even how often we see each other. I think its a good deal if it all rings true.

Il do another post on exactly what allowance he offered and what kind of relationship we would have. This post is getting long and id like to post on how I work out allowances and tips on conversations surrounding them, as they can be tricky.

Weekend Kisses!
Baby Bow xx

These are a few of bows favorite things....

Since joining Facebook I have had a few messages and e-mails asking me about certain outfits and beauty products Ive mentioned in past blogs. I am going to be quite a busy little baby over the next week so I have decided to make a post, just about fashion and beauty.

If you enjoy this post and would like to share your tips leave a comment, or better a post if your a blogger too, shared advice is sweeter advice!

Before I ever had any kind of sugar daddy, before this sugar world was but a twinkle in my eye, I used to wish I could have designer purses, bags and shoes. I think that if your shoes and purse look expensive, it pulls together the rest of your outfit, so it doesn't matter if that is from topshop. Although your potential Sugar Daddy will understand you don't quite have the funds for your lifestyle yet, that's what your there for after all, they will appreciate seeing a glimpse of how well you dress and how stylish you are - immediately in their mind they will imagine traveling first class with you, bringing you to a business event or a work function.

If you haven't met your sugar daddy yet, there are a few great websites that you can buy replica bags on and now even shoes such as Christian Louboutins and YSL and Jimmy Choo. Now, i have to be honest I don't like fakes, they don't wear as well and will not last - but I admit they are great for a few dates, just don't expect them to last forever! I am lucky enough to have a few pieces bought either by myself or from my past SD, so I usually always wear a pair of Christian Louboutins on a date - they are timeless and sexy, and i find my dates always comment on them which is lovely. I think it is much better to buy something like this than spend a huge amount of money that you don't have, after all, if the desired effect works you will be on 5th ave before you know it!

Its never a good idea to buy a bag/shoe that is plastered in the label, inside and out. I went through a phase of wearing juicy couture head to toe with my last sugar daddy, he thought it was cute, which was lucky, because when i look back now I looked like a brightly coloured baby. I also used to own a Louis Vuitton print jacket and matching knee high boots, all in denim monogram. Double denim is never a good look - even if it is Louis Vuitton. Eeeeuhk!

So with that in mind, try to pick something classic that will go with all of your outfits, and be noticed for the right reasons, not the wrong.

Here are some good websites for harder to find designer shoes:

• http://www.jimmychoos.net/ - great for Alexander Mcqueen, YSL and Jimmy Choos. Also sell Birkins.




• http://www.manolo-blahnik.com/ - Manolos, Balmain, Giuseppe Zanotti boots.
  

They all sell pretty much sell the same stuff, just don't be disappointed as the quality is not the same as the ones you look at in the stores, and on close inspection you can tell. Good for a few wears without spending too much or for a pair that might go out of fashion quickly. There is also a good website Jess Bunny mentioned in one of her blogs so check that out too for bags.

The only thing I wouldn't suggest you copy is a designer watch, there are so many giveaways on a fake and its better to have a nice understated watch than a flashy fake designer one that looks tacky. My watch is fairly loud and flashy and for that reason I hardly wear it, sometimes I will but it makes quite a statement so I would love a simply stylish and 'timeless' Cartier or a Patek Phillippe :-)

If you have the Daddy and you are lucky enough to already have you allowance and gifts, a great place to shop is:

• http://www.net-a-porter.com/ - You name it they sell it, I almost wet myself I get so excited looking on here. Your new shoes/dress/ comes packaged in a black box with a ribbon and and if you live in the city you can get the same day delivery in just a few hours!
  

When spending a lot of your allowance still be careful on your choices, I bought a pair of Louboutins and because they are cream and suede all i do is look at them, i wore them out to dinner once and as it was raining wouldn't leave the restaurant until it stopped, just because of the shoes. Don't spend £600 for something you are too scared to wear!! A good tip is if you do invest in Louboutins, take them to Harrods or your nearest Louboutin and get the red sole grips added because the soles are smooth and it will stop the red sole from scratching.

Make up: I love Bobbi Brown and Mac, pop into a department store before a date and ask to have your make up retouched or a make up lesson. I do this all the time because they try things you may not think of and it stops you getting into a 'make up rut' which is easy to do.

Eyelashes: Love flash eyelashes and now you can have them as natural or as false as you like. For a night out with the girls I use Mac or Shu Uemura who is the expert on eyelashes! Go to the Shu Eyelash bar in London or New York and get them applied, they make your eyes pop and are so glamorous and you can try layering more than one pair at once. For a natural look, I always apply Eylure eyelash extensions myself, they are so easy, look pretty and are cheap. You can get a cat eye effect and just add a few long ones on the edges of your eyes!

Body: I swear by Roc Rentinol Anti Cellulite cream, it makes your skin clear with no dimples and leaves them feeling silky. After you use it for two weeks you drop inches and can maintain it.

I once spoke to a make up artist who worked on sex and the city, she said to mix an anti cellulite cream with a bronzing liquid to get amazing legs.

If you cant be bothered to mix it yourself try Nars body glow from Sephora - Victoria Beckham apparently uses this and i always think her body looks glowing and tanned.

Teeth: If you live in the States you will have this in your local shops, in fact you probably have amazing teeth already! You can order some online too. Its called crest whitening toothpaste with baking soda and peroxide and it starts working right away to get stains off teeth and leave them sparkling. I bring it back for friends and family by the suitcase full! Its only a few dollars too. If used with a good electric toothbrush with a whitening head, the results are even better...
Also try Arm and Hammer whitening booster which is just peroxide you brush on, i use both and think my teeth are so many shades lighter than they were. If you have your teeth whitened professionally its a great way to keep the colour up.

Hair: I like TIGI products and Aussie, but I think my hair looks best when I use a purple shampoo. Purple shampoo is for white or grey hair, and it takes out golden or brassy/yellow tones. But used on blonde hair it gives a platinum shine and keeps your highlights looking fresh. Just try not to use too much as I did once and my hair took on a blue tint! If you have dark or red hair John Frida do a really nice colour booster that works the same. I also love bumble and bumble styling products, their thickening spray is tres chic!

Fragrance: Jo Malone is my favorite, there are so many to choose from in the most beautiful packaging. I personally like Orange Blossom and I would love to own the matching Orange candles. For the day time, I like to buy from either Victoria's Secret or Bath and Body Works as they both do a great range of body sprays that are lush. My current favorite is the new festive range in Gilded Ginger Creme, it smells of Christmas and ginger bread cookies and they do a matching shimmer cream! Yum!

That is about it, thankfully as I've written so much! Tomorrow I'm off to Tokyo and when I get home I have a lot to do so I may have a little gap in my blogs. I'm hoping when I blog again il be seeing Mr Perfect and other suitors and will have plenty good stuff to post :-)

Until Then.... Love Baby Bow x x

My Sugar Saturday

Yesterday, I wake up thinking 'what to do with my Saturday'? I usually find I'm working or away on a weekend, so its always nice to be at home and see what my friends plans are.

I was just laid in bed thinking about the day ahead, when my blackberry buzzed. Open message - Mr Showbiz 'Hey bow, I'm in town just back from America. Would you like lunch today?' So, up I got, jumped into the shower, washed my hair and set it in some big rollers while I got ready. I obviously didn't have time to tan so I have this new St Tropez instant tan that washes off (its so good for UK readers get it in Superdrug for like £15 and use a mitt to apply) so i covered myself in that, gave my self a quick mani, and got dressed.... I wore black leggings, some grey suade platforms from Topshop, a long dark grey vest top with silver studs, a light grey blazer, and my Prada bag - sounds very grey but looks pretty hot :-)

I jumped on the train to where I meet Mr Showbiz, who greeted me with a smile, a hug, and an envelope....this is what he did last time and i never open it while I'm with him.

Next we went to Nobu on Park Lane for lunch, we both had some amazing sashimi and sushi, washed down with Dom Perignon. After lunch I went back to his apartment (I haven't yet been to his house, but I have seen the pictures on facebook and its out of this universe amazing!) But we drove in his Bentley which was gorgeous they are my favorite cars, so classy. I stayed for a few hours, most of the afternoon, then he asked me where I wanted to go next. I said home, because I had some plans with friends to go shopping to the mall that evening.

When I got home, I opened the envelope and there was some allowance - happy shopping evening was ahead! Mr Showbiz always hands me at least a couple of K's when I see him. I know he would be the perfect sugar daddy if he is happy to hand me a few grand as a gift when I do see him, I can imagine the kind of allowance he would provide.

The problem is - Mr Showbiz travels all over for his 'showbusiness', that paired with my traveling all over means I often get these 'Hey Bow, would you like to go for lunch today' texts, but my usual response is ' So sorry I'm in Hong Kong!' and he will be in Florida or somewhere ridiculously far. So when we get together its very, very good, but its few and far between.

I need a sugar daddy who stays put! One who spends his majority of time in one place, and then I can travel and it wont impact on our meetings....

So with my spongdolies, I put in the bank as I am trying to save some £ into an investment. The rest, I decided I want a hair change next month - going to get really long extensions, wavy ones, with a really big fringe - bangs for US baby's - and really blonder than I usually have. So Il use some money towards that too.

Although, saying this I did go shopping and I bought loads of things. An amazing silver chunky Gucci Horsebit Bamboo bracelet I had seen Lauren Conrad in, a few new dresses with awesome sequined shoulder pad details, a few new blazers and jackets as its getting chilly over here in the UK now! And an amazing juicy couture fluffy hat.

So Saturday turned out to be a very sugary day for me, I have more updates but this seems like the longest post in the world so il post that a bit later on!

Have a great Sunday,

Love Always, Baby Bow xx

Shopping Courtesy of Mr Showbiz...Allowance

Hey Everyone!
Ive had such a great weekend, and last few days. Firstly I had to go to China with work which was just amazing, had the best time! After a lot of dim sum and two major long flights I was feeling pretty Jet lagged... and there is one thing that takes that jet lag feeling and replaces it with excitement and butterfly's and sparkles! Shopping!

And it just so happened, that as I landed back I had a cheeky little message from my Mr Showbiz, inviting me to go see him. I told him my plans where to go shopping and invited him along. He would have loved to have come shopping with me, I'm like me too then you can pay! The time wasn't right to take my shopping, so we spent an hour or so together which was nice, he is so lovely. Then at the end, he tells me he is excited to see me again... and hands me a little envelope with some allowance in so I can shop myself which is peerrrrrrrrrrfect!

So for the past few days I have been shop shop shopping. I never thought id say this but I'm shopped out. First I got some new ugg boots, I love being all cosy in them in autumn and winter, so I picked up a gorgeous short grey pair which are just so cute! I picked up a pair for my sister and mother too.
I got myself some new Louboutins, there really cute. High black with the red sole, peep toe, and a red panel at the front which matches the sole...so hot!

Now for the most amazing thing ever, I swear I have that object affection thing where people fall in love with their car and fairground rides, you know that weird object fetish! Well I am absolutely in LOVE with this, its beautiful. Its a Thomas Wylde clutch bag, in cracked black leather, the leather is divine its smells amazing, its so soft! I keep taking it out of its little sleeping bag and looking at it, I'm scared to use it! Its really slouchy and has these Swarovski Chystal skulls ....ahhhhhhhhhh. Its Love.

So I probably should have saved some money, but i like shopping too much. And you know what, the jet lag is so so so over! :-)

kisses, Baby Bow x

OMG - So many Potentials!

I have to admit I was hating on SD.com a little bit, but oh my goodness in the last 24 hours I have made quite a few potentials!

Il introduce them now,

Mr Ingocnito - Named so because I am yet to see a picture.
Seems good so far, 40, dont know too much about him, he is playing his cards close to that millionaires chest of his. We are meeting for drinks in Londons Dorchester hotel. He has agreed on my allowence, so thats a good start in my eyes.

Mr Big - Big money maker, Big guy, Big Wallet. living between London and NY, has asked to fly me out to NY, is happy with allowence, now im waiting to see if he pulls through.

They are the two best of the bunch, although I have been speaking to a few more who seem worth a drink or two.

Mr Showbiz and I had a little misunderstanding today, over something completley stupid that was all his own fault - not mine of course! - but I think that will be ok. We seem to have made up (he thought I told him I lived somewhere that I dont, and I would never say that as I dont even know the place he is talking about - so he either had me mixed up or maybe its old age :-D )

On the subject of Mr Showbiz, I added him on facebook and to my delight he is the daddy of all sugardaddys, his house is a m a z i n g. He drives a Bentley too. His house, OMG, its just like a mansion - in London!

Ive been looking through Net a porter this afternoon, just loving the dresses and shoes, I so want me some of those. Look at these shoes I have put up top, these are some things I want. And il get them...

Love always and forever, Baby Bow x

Cherry.......

So I thought id do a little post while I had the time, I want to speak much more on tips and what I think is good advice passed on and picked up from other sugar baby's, and even some sugar daddy's them selves... I don't want to be a bore and use this as a 'diary' too much, I hope that people are reading my blog? Are fellow baby's enjoying it? Any male readers? Any male sugar daddy, or even male sugar baby blogs??? Id love to read if so...

Anyhow, I don't have much time for a long post today, but my next post will be all about good advice I think. And maybe you other sugar girls (I've loved reading all your posts by the way!) can add to it... and we can all learn some more.

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I have a little bit of good news. Well, I put my Sim in my old blackberry and I found Mr Showbiz's number! I sent him a little text, he is at his house in Monaco, and he arranged a time for us to meet up when he is back in the UK.

Ive decided to use this time to get hotter. I'm going to try and manage my money a little better, and stop shopping so much......so hard. so hard :-( I love shopping. Saying that I went shopping today, I bought some gorgeous maxi dresses and some of the Kate Moss range at Topshop.... but from now on, il try my best. I have also started working out, I've been so lazy, really so so so lazy, I haven't worked out in forever and a 22 years almost. So I worked out last night, and today I can hardly move!

The second bit of good news, omigoodness I cant beleive I haven't already posted this..............

MY CHRISTIAN LOUBOUTIN CHERRY HAS GONE....

On Monday morning, I woke up to a beautiful parcel at home. When I opened it, looked into the deliciousness that was the box, there in a classy red dust bag they rested. A pair of gorgeous red soled, 3-strap Christian Louboutin Mary Janes. From Mr NY. How exciting!

I sent him an e-mail to say thank you, I havent yet heard back. The shoes unfortunately are too small - Italian sizing, so I put them on eBay and hopefully I can get enough back to buy myself a pair again!

I just keep looking at them, they are gorgeous........................

Good luck on the sugar dates this weekend girls,

Love Baby Bow x

Home sweet home...

Hello Beautiful Baby's,

I had such a fun time in China! The people I was out there working with were so cool, we had a huge party trip. I'm just about recovered, and I think my old friend Jet Lag is starting to hide herself away.

Hong Kong is an amazing place for a SD search by the way ladies, I know traveling isn't every ones thing, but Hong Kong is an easy place to get to, and such a wonderful city. Its full of bankers, stock brokers, CEO's, western guys as well as Asian guys, and it has a real party atmosphere. For you baby's in America - its about the same time as it is from Hong Kong to the UK - maybe you should broaden your searches to the international. A good daddy would be able to afford to fly you first class where ever you wanted, and it would keep it completely separate from your sugarless life.

Apart from partying my little ass off, I did do some shopping. I bought some really cute Links of London friendship bracelets, and a gorgeous, major amazing piece of arm candy - see picture. A Chanel J12, in white ceramic! I love love it, I probably should have bought the ladies version - but I like a piece of heavy bling, so I went for the mens!

I have wanted one for a long time, I think there so hot. I actually paid quite a lot more than I thought I would for it, but its so gorgeous, don't you agree?! Its too big so I need to get some links taken out... so hot.

Well, one bad thing happened in Hong Kong, actually two. I lost my camera (annoying!!!!!) and my blackberry broke (double or even triple annoying)

So along with the blackberry, the main thing was my contacts which are on the memory... Mr showbiz number was in there, so I'm hoping he texts me soon and il get his number again!

Hasta La Vista

Baby Bow x

Chinese Whispers...

Hello everybody,

Apologies for a late update, but I have been a very busy baby! I am currently in China writing this blog, and my body is all over the place in time zones.

So where to start..... hmmm.

Ok, so L.A was the last time I posted. I had a great time, mostly chilling out, found this amazing store that sell juicy, primp, CC cali, havaianas flip flops, kitson, Steve madden, all my favorite things, with major discounts, if any of you guys are in L.A soon let me know and il get you the name.

The plan was meeting with Mr BA, well I decided when I arrived not to meet him. He had been a little 'intense' and i wasn't sure that I was feeling it. He was chatting about sex, sex, sex, and I was only mentioning £££ and gifts an appropriate amount, so the balance wasn't right. That paired with the fact I found out one of my girl friends I hadn't seen in a long time was in town for the night, and suddenly shopping and fun with her seemed more appealing...

But things got interesting in L.A. I received a text from someone I haven't spoken to for a while, a good 5 months. Il call him Mr Showbiz.

Mr Showbiz came on the scene when I first decided id like a Sugar Daddy, which was about a year ago. At the time id just started an amazing job, I cant even call it a job its so great, its just an amazing life style, so that kind of pushed the daddy to the back of the priorities. Now, after getting used to the job, I decide a Sugar Daddy would be the prefect pink frosting, on an already very sweet little cake. An enhancement of the already fairly good life, that extra sparkle, that perfect bonus...

So, I got a text from Mr Showbiz, basically asking if I was around (London) and if I would like to meet. He left my a voicemail, had a really kind voice, and I remembered speaking to him previously on Seeking Arrangement.com. I told him I was in L.A but id like to when I am back, and he agreed. He is looking for a real arrangement, and says if we get along I can stay at his place in Monte Carlo.... yay! Super googleable, very well known even, some of his friends and colleagues are very famous, he even told me to google him himself. And I actually find him attractive, so I'm glad he has come back into my search. I think he could be a keeper, if we enjoy each others company of course. Il ask him to take me out in London soon, and we can see how it goes from there.

The same day as I received this text from Mr Showbiz, I got a message from Ice Man, and I decided to see him again when I arrived back from L.A . We spent some of the weekend together, went for dinner, watched a movie, I stayed over with him at his house. Then, out of the blue he asked me to go on holiday with him to St Tropez next month, I said yes, and its all booked! I have only met him twice, so it may be a little hasty, I know... but why the hell not!

So I better go get some sleep, tomorrow I have another two nights in Hong Kong, I'm planning on taking a trip to the 'ladies market' as they do really good fakes. I am not loving fakes, I have to be honest, id prefer the real thing. But I think its good to wear something expensive (looking) to a sugar date, just the odd thing, weather it be a shoe, a handbag or a watch, just to show what you like, and the way you expect to be gifted :-) Start like you mean to go on...

Are there any really hot items you love at the moment I should look out for? I am planning on getting a classic Chanel quilted bag, you cannot tell the difference! And they are so classy and go with everything!

Good night,

Love Baby Bow x

Sugar Hair, Sugar Beauty....

You remember my previous post about the ex ice hockey player, the one who mysteriously appeared on my msn messenger, and I'm not sure where from? I suspect SugarDaddie.com...

Well we have been in touch a little over the past week, and seeing as he is near by to me, and he seems like a genuine guy, we are going out tomorrow.

I'm going to go for dinner with him, and then for a few drinks. He lives over an hour away so I may stay over with him (assuming we are getting along well of course and he doesn't seem like a psycho/bunny boiler/ axe murderer/ masked murderer etc) I have already made it quite clear it wouldn't be 'like that' and i expect to stay in his spare room :-)

I am thinking of wearing a really cute cream crochet summer dress I got from forever 21 in L.A... I love it in there by the way, you baby's from the states might feel differently because you get to use it all the time, but for fellow British or European baby's its so cool, no body ever knows where what your wearings from at home and you never bump into any one wearing the same outfit, plus its sooooo cheap and they change stock all the time!
Il probably pair it with a tan leather waist belt, and tan or leopard print gladiator sandals. I'm only 5'3 so I do like to wear heels, but I know were going to be walking between places so I thought id go for casual but cute flats.

Then il take a little grey short cover-up just in case it turns cooler. Il wear black lace lingerie... not that i plan on any body seeing it ;-) I'm thinking big and bouncy waves in my blonde hair, and il re-do my hair extensions tonight ready.

Speaking of hair extensions if you like them too hear are my favorites, I use Jessica Simpson hairdo for at work, so easy clip in clip out and as long as your colour is a good match they can look really professional. Usually for the weekend or a few days, up to a week, il glue in my hair. I buy my hair in wefts from a wholesalers, buy plastic based white hair glue, and glue them on. I have quite fine hair so I only use one double weft, but you can use more. Running your hot ghd's closed but over the bond will fix it better onto your hair. They come out easy with conditioner and a comb, and I always find this the easiest way.... I hate feeling a head full of clips especially on a date.... what if he tries to run his fingers through your hair?? Aghhhh!

I like to have my hair big, and loose curls. A little like Jessica Simpson or Alex Curran, at the moment I'm loving Heidi Montag massive blonde hair, that's very much my style. I think the best way to go about it is using heated rollers, rather than a barrel tong. Although both can work well. I don't know if you get this in the states but 'Dust It from Schwarzkopf is one of the best products ever for hair like this. Its like a powder, comes in a cute little red shaker, you put it on your roots or where you need volume....lift...and voila! Huge hair!

I also like to look on you tube for cute tips on hair and step by step guides, its pretty useful.

Id love to hear what you fellow baby's like to wear on first dates, how do you like your hair? Any good tips? I love sharing tips!

I didn't really know what to write about today so I hope that was ok and someone found it useful!

Love Baby Bow x

Baby goes to Hollywood...

So I just thought id give a quick update as im packing up the louis luggage for a few days and I wont be back until next week...

I hope every ones searches are going well! I have been speaking lots to Mr BA and im excited to meet him now, more so than I was before. The more I chat to him, the better I feel about it all, and the more attracted I am to him.

Mr NY is still 'sick' so we will see how that one goes, and more importantly if my gift turns up in the post or not, im still hoping to get out to Chicago to meet him, so Il have to see if he gets back in touch once the illness has gone ;-)

Ive also been chatting on the phone to a guy who lives near to me in the UK. He is 35, an ex pro ice hockey player, but now has his own business. I had him on my messenger, which was strange because I don't remember adding him, and I have never spoken to him really before....

So up he popped the other day and we got to chatting, he never mentioned the whole sugar thing, we just spoke about general stuff and he called me today to ask me out on a date when I get back to the UK next week. Im assuming I met him on SugarDaddie.com a while back, but he is cute and the kind of guy id see without any kind of 'arrangement' so its worth going out to dinner with him!

Tomorrow morning im of to LA with some girl friends for the weekend. Its one of our favorite places to go, and we go usually once every month if we can. If there are any LA sugar babys around come and join the party! We will probably just chill and shop, go party in les deux or My house and have some fun!

Have a great weekend everybody,

Love Baby Bow x

Tasting the sweet life...

I was wondering what every ones reasons for finding a sugar daddy are? Do you have a specific reason you want one, like college, being a student etc. How are every ones searches going so far?

For me, I like nice things. Its a simple as that. In life I generally go to nice places, with or without a sugar daddy. I like high class bars, and I want more of the good life. I have ambitions and dreams that I think having the support of a sugar daddy would help me to achieve. Apart from that I like material things, I just fall in love with bags and shoes, I love everything about them. Il go to an expensive designer store and I can stare at the shoes for hours, and wish I could own them.

I cannot wait for the moment that I post on here to inform you all of my Christian Louboutin cherry being popped! ;-)

I like to have my hair done at nice salons, I like to have Cinderella hair extensions. I like to have a st tropez spray tan once a week, and I like to go to a good gym, if like to have a personal trainer even more. I like to keep my nails looking good, id like to be able to treat my girlfriends to spa days. I like to buy people beautiful gifts.

I like Jimmy Choo. I like Louis Vuitton...Louis and I go way back. I like going to expensive restaurants, I like drinking Champagne when ever I go out, I like to be able to go to a club with my girlfriends and buy a table. I like to travel, and I like to look f*cking fantastic while I do it all. ;-)

Baby Bow x

Introducing Mr B.A...

OK, so during July I am going to be meeting some of my new international sugar. Firstly, I will tell you about Mr BA. We will call him BA for the pure and simple fact that he carries and owns a BLACK AMEX. The elusive, sure sign of sugar daddy worthiness.

That alone has guaranteed him a date with Bow, and Bow expects the card to be out in full force!

I met this particular Sugar Daddy on Seeking Arrangement.com. He is in Miami, which is somewhere I frequently visit, so the logistics of seeing him will not be a problem. He has a beautiful house by the ocean, and is so far saying all the right things.

I told him of my love of shoes and shopping, and he promised on out first meeting a shopping trip... so far. so good. He also sent me $600, via paypal, just to show me he is interested. Not a huge deal, and by no means BLACK AMEX standards... but to say I have never met the guy I think this was a pretty cool gesture.

Now, onto the one and only problem. The looks. Now, fellow sugar baby's you must understand, I am attracted to older men. I like them, they like me. So that is not so much a problem. And in the past my boyfriends (not SD, just the regular poor type ;-) have been pretty average looking. Im all about the personality... Don't get me wrong, I appreciate a good looking man, and a good looking older man.... well I'm week at the knees at the thought!

So my question is.... Do looks really matter?

If you find the perfect Sugar Daddy, the right allowance, etc but from photos your not so sure if you would be attracted to him - would you still go? Would you carry on a relationship with a guy if everything is perfect, just not the looks, not the attraction. Does the BLACK AMEX - cancel it out?

I know in the past I have met people, who I have been attracted to but if I had seen them on paper or a picture, i wouldn't have so much..... the charisma, charm and confidence has outweighed all the other stuff, and every woman in the room was looking.

So, should I take a chance? Would you play, with B.A? ;-)

Love Baby Bow x