There he was... Part Two!

There it was.........

A message from Mr Date 'Cant wait to meet you today Beautiful, Il be there at the bar'.

Thank goodness for that, I had finally nailed a date and now I wouldn't let anything stop me. Excitedly I got out of bed, and got myself ready for the date.

I wore skinny dark jeans with a long white vest top, Loubutins and Prada bag. My hair was freshly done from the salon the day before, so I was good to go. I felt a little nervous so I had a baileys coffee :-) Hehehe.

On the way to the date I prepped myself. I do this everyday even if its for no particular reason, I think of all the reasons I am so happy, and all of the things I want for the day. So in this case, it was a seamless journey into London, and a perfect, positive meeting with Mr Date. (If you haven't read 'The Secret' you should...but I could talk about positive thinking for hours so Il maybe post another time about this!)

The driver dropped me off outside of the restaurant, and I hopped out of the car. Little white linen covered tables were dotted outside, paparazzi were hanging around (I'm still not sure who for although I was discreetly looking all through Dinner!) and I could laterally smell the sugar in the air.

I walked into the resturant, taking in scenery and people watching as I went -

And there he was.......

I saw him sat at a table - took a wild guess and popped my bag onto the seat next to him while introducing myself. Luckily, it was him and he looked very friendly and I felt at ease right away.

We ordered some wine, and chatted for a few hours. In between talking we ate some delicious Seafood and Oysters, Steak and Champagne. I liked how easy he was to talk to, although believe me I never stop talking so maybe that was just me! But we laughed, while I offended him a few times in a jokey way, luckily he found this endearing and he warmed to me :-) He complimented me on how I looked, and when I declined another bite of Chocolate dessert as id 'have to spend an extra hour in Pilate's' he lightly patted me on the bum and told me I was perfect. ;-) I wouldn't say that was true, but very sweet indeed!

Half way through dinner we had the 'allowance' chat. Now, I had prepared myself for this and knew exactly what I wanted. I had a feeling as it was quite high he might negotiate down a little, which I was happy for as id over compensated so that we could do! My mind was running over time, thinking stay calm, natural, direct..... when he offers out his hand for a hand shake and comes right out with an amount - which is more than my highest starting point :-) Perfect.

So all in all, we had the perfect date. We agreed to start something, so I am officially his Sugar Baby. Our next meeting is next week, where I am going to a dinner event with him. We are then going shopping the following morning, so I am looking forward to that!

I am very happy that I persevered, I knew that it would work out. Mr Date is kind, attentive, genuine, real, and generous. He will take very good care of me, as I will him. Its time for chapter two.... !

Excited Hugs and Kisses,

Baby Bow x x x

Chinese Whispers...

Hello everybody,

Apologies for a late update, but I have been a very busy baby! I am currently in China writing this blog, and my body is all over the place in time zones.

So where to start..... hmmm.

Ok, so L.A was the last time I posted. I had a great time, mostly chilling out, found this amazing store that sell juicy, primp, CC cali, havaianas flip flops, kitson, Steve madden, all my favorite things, with major discounts, if any of you guys are in L.A soon let me know and il get you the name.

The plan was meeting with Mr BA, well I decided when I arrived not to meet him. He had been a little 'intense' and i wasn't sure that I was feeling it. He was chatting about sex, sex, sex, and I was only mentioning £££ and gifts an appropriate amount, so the balance wasn't right. That paired with the fact I found out one of my girl friends I hadn't seen in a long time was in town for the night, and suddenly shopping and fun with her seemed more appealing...

But things got interesting in L.A. I received a text from someone I haven't spoken to for a while, a good 5 months. Il call him Mr Showbiz.

Mr Showbiz came on the scene when I first decided id like a Sugar Daddy, which was about a year ago. At the time id just started an amazing job, I cant even call it a job its so great, its just an amazing life style, so that kind of pushed the daddy to the back of the priorities. Now, after getting used to the job, I decide a Sugar Daddy would be the prefect pink frosting, on an already very sweet little cake. An enhancement of the already fairly good life, that extra sparkle, that perfect bonus...

So, I got a text from Mr Showbiz, basically asking if I was around (London) and if I would like to meet. He left my a voicemail, had a really kind voice, and I remembered speaking to him previously on Seeking Arrangement.com. I told him I was in L.A but id like to when I am back, and he agreed. He is looking for a real arrangement, and says if we get along I can stay at his place in Monte Carlo.... yay! Super googleable, very well known even, some of his friends and colleagues are very famous, he even told me to google him himself. And I actually find him attractive, so I'm glad he has come back into my search. I think he could be a keeper, if we enjoy each others company of course. Il ask him to take me out in London soon, and we can see how it goes from there.

The same day as I received this text from Mr Showbiz, I got a message from Ice Man, and I decided to see him again when I arrived back from L.A . We spent some of the weekend together, went for dinner, watched a movie, I stayed over with him at his house. Then, out of the blue he asked me to go on holiday with him to St Tropez next month, I said yes, and its all booked! I have only met him twice, so it may be a little hasty, I know... but why the hell not!

So I better go get some sleep, tomorrow I have another two nights in Hong Kong, I'm planning on taking a trip to the 'ladies market' as they do really good fakes. I am not loving fakes, I have to be honest, id prefer the real thing. But I think its good to wear something expensive (looking) to a sugar date, just the odd thing, weather it be a shoe, a handbag or a watch, just to show what you like, and the way you expect to be gifted :-) Start like you mean to go on...

Are there any really hot items you love at the moment I should look out for? I am planning on getting a classic Chanel quilted bag, you cannot tell the difference! And they are so classy and go with everything!

Good night,

Love Baby Bow x

Finding a man of mint...

If like me...you are looking for a minted man, then I have a few tips I have picked up from other successful baby's and I shall pass them on :-)

Now, finding the Daddy of Sugar. Personally, I like to use websites such as seeking arrangement and sugardaddie.com. I find them the best of their kind, and although there are some unfortunate men, there are also many diamonds to be found!

I have also heard of other Sugar Baby's using Craig's list, but I have not tried this. Even some using Gum Tree, again, its not something I have tried out myself.

When you have found the guy you like, and a date is mentioned, think about the kind of situation you would prefer? On the one hand, some baby's like to meet for a coffee (quick, easy, and you may allow for multiple dates in one day, so go easy on the caffeine!) or on the other hand you may prefer to be wined and dined and make a fabulous evening of it.

I think both have advantages, a quick coffee means that you can leave pretty quickly if he has the looks of a bulldog and the wallet of a tramp. But a long dinner will lead to many clues to show you the guys wealth, and also you will get the chance to dress up and show how you are first class arm candy of the best possible kind!

I always think its good to keep a look out for;
A coutts bank card
A black American Express
A nice pair of shoes, classic wallet, and an expensive watch
Good fitting clothes

It is also important to watch the way your date interacts with people like the waiters, and bar staff... another tip when planning where to go is to ask him where he usually likes to go - and then pray its not pizza express.

This may all seem a little over the top or untrusting, but lets be honest there are some idiots out there who think you will get all dressed up and spend your time with them for absolutely nothing, without even a mention of our old friend Louis.

I personally like to speak about the 'arrangement' details, money...times per month...expectations etc before any meeting, as this saves your time if they are clueless and also is less awkward and you can then concentrate on having a fantastic night.

Love Baby Bow x

Sugar Sweet Secrets...

I was wondering how many of you fellow sugar baby's keep your sugar affair a secret. Do you tell your friends, work mates, or maybe just a select few? Or do you tell no one, absolutely no one about the sugar sweet arrangement?

Personally, I tell lots of people. I don't go into loads of details, and I only tell people I know will approve, and then they usually go do the same! I have a few work friends who know, and they are now on a sugar search them selves.

My best friend Charlotte and a few of my close friends also know. I like to be honest as I think its safe to have at least one or two people know where you are, and with whom your spending your time.

I also think its exciting and I like have someone to talk about it all with! I find the search for sugar as exciting as the actual thing itself, and I like to be able to have a chat about it to somebody close.

I would not tell my family, as I think they would disapprove a little. Once I have my new sugar daddy I will tell them about the relationship, skillfully without using any words like 'arrangement' 'sugar daddy' or mutually beneficial relationship' !

I hope everyone had an amazing weekend! I am really enjoying reading every ones blogs that I'm following!

Love Baby Bow x

Wait all day for a bus.... Then four come along at once

Hello sugar girls and boys,

Thought id give a little update, I am going to try and write at least once or twice a week to keep it interesting, I hate reading blogs and then they go quiet I feel like I'm in suspense to find out what happened! So Ill try to not do that with this one...

The international search is going well. Why is it you wait all day for a bus, then four come along at once! Well, I have this but the buses are in fact rich sugar daddy men, the bus ticket is allowances, and the bus stop is the comfort of my own home ;-)

I have been chatting to yet another potential, who is from Boston. So depending on how dates go with BA and NY, a trip to Boston may be on the cards.

The guy is good looking, wants to see me 1-2 times per month and when he comes to the UK, and is happy with an allowance etc. He seems genuine and reliable and is very polite and sweet. I haven't actually seen a picture yet, but he works out and says he is considered attractive by many.

I'm holding out for Mr NY to be honest... he is my favorite. He is so hot, and I really think I could get it all from him if I play my cards right... Only time, and a meeting will tell.

I'm glad that I am chatting to a few and keeping my options open, I'm still not sure how many I would like, but I think two is a good amount and do-able! I have also been thinking a lot about allowance amounts, and what is too much, too little... What do you ask your sugar daddy's for, and how do you justifie it?

Love Baby Bow x

Daddy Etiquette...

When you are out with your sugar daddy, or on a date, how do you like to be treated? Are there certain things you look out for? Sure fire signs that impress you?

I have always been the kind of girl to like an older man, I like the sophistication, the way they walk, the way the talk. I think an older man carries himself in a way that guys my age just don't get.

I want to be taken to beautiful restaurants, I want him to show me the wine list and when it comes to pour each glass for me. I want him to ask me what I would like to eat, and order it on my behalf... I want him to open the car door, and to bring me gifts.... To hold a door open. I want him to know what I want in bed, and to satisfy me before he thinks of satisfying himself... If I'm thirsty in the night I want him to jump right out of bed and bring me water.

I know some may think this is old fashioned and some plain sexist, but I like to be taken care of by a man like this. And manners are all part of it!

I like a man to show a sense of selflessness, to think of me and others first, to show self control and honesty, these are all qualities that draw me... even more so than looks!

And if anyone has not been fortunate enough to date or be with a man like this, they do exist, you just have to seek them out.

I want a gentleman, not a man. And a true gentleman is always a gentleman, even when no one is looking ;-)

Love Baby Bow x