The Sugar Seas.....

So the sugar day dates are over, phew! That was a long few days!

On the first evening I had the pleasure of meeting beautiful honey baby our fellow sugar baby blogger, If I could link to her blog I would, but I'm useless at these things - I didn't get blonde hair for nothing ;-) We drank champagne and got admired by a room full of sugar daddy's, but we were more interested in telling each other our sugar quests than hunt down fresh sugar.

There was a few problems with the underground in London, so I had to do a 'Mr Date' on a few of my potentials which sucked, I really don't like to let people down. Of course I apologised, and they asked to re-arrange.

So out of the guys I met, I am very interested in Mr Perfect and Mr Shot Myself In The Foot! Mr perfect and I had the loveliest date Ive ever had, a lunch date that lasted 4 hours. Yes, that's right, FOUR whole hours......

We met at a Harrods department store, he has a apartment around the corner and called this his 'corner shop'..... That's it, right there. That is what I want. I want to call Knightsbridge 'my road' , Harrods my 'corner shop', Nobu my 'cafe'!

When I arrived he was already there, as I had to walk so freaking far (due to the underground) in the most inappropriate shoe situation you have ever seen. I had on an all black outfit consisting of black leggings, a black long frilled shirt, a little caramel fur jacket and my caramel long over the knee boots - perfect!

But, as you can imagine, not so perfect for walking over cobbles trying to find your way to Harrods. I giggled, when I passed a 6 star hotel and the door man called me over. I walked over, teetering on the cobbled street, and he asked me for my autograph, pen and notepad in hand. Hilarious. WTF is that all about!! I cocked my head like some kind of confused poodle, looking like an airhead unintentionally while ignoring the question, asking him the way to Harrods. He asked me if id like a lift in the Rolls Royce, to which I declined and followed his directions. Crazy start to the morning already :-)

After hopping into the express lift and whizzing myself up to the top floor restaurant I saw a figure stand up as I approached the table, it was Mr perfect. We sat down and I said "I don't usually look so red and sweaty" as id walked so far, he laughed and ordered me some sparkling water. We drank wine, ate the most lovely 3 course lunch, talked and talked and talked some more. I found out so much about him, and I am so glad I spotted him from his incognito profile. He is like a diamond in the sh*t, covered by a crappy one liner profile :-)

It started to get dark, and I realised we had been sat there for hours. People had come, ate and gone, come ate and gone, including some of the royal family, who were apparently sat on the next table but I didn't even notice... He thanked me, payed on a black American Express, and asked me to see him again some time. A few hours later, I text him and we have spoken and will meet again for lunch next week. Yay :-)

Mr Shot Myself On The Foot is at the front of my mind too, and we are also meeting next week. I am still interested in Mr K, as unfortunately I didn't get to meet him. He seems promising and down to earth, so I will re arrange.

I have to say, i am loving the sugar dating at the moment. It seems like there are so many more quality, diamond sugar daddy men around, maybe its the calm of the storm after the economic downturn? Maybe its the ripple, of the great sea of sugar that is coming our way. All I know is I'm going to be at the top, riding that wave on a pink diamond encrusted surf board!

Till later Sugars, Love Baby Bow xx

There he was... Part Two!

There it was.........

A message from Mr Date 'Cant wait to meet you today Beautiful, Il be there at the bar'.

Thank goodness for that, I had finally nailed a date and now I wouldn't let anything stop me. Excitedly I got out of bed, and got myself ready for the date.

I wore skinny dark jeans with a long white vest top, Loubutins and Prada bag. My hair was freshly done from the salon the day before, so I was good to go. I felt a little nervous so I had a baileys coffee :-) Hehehe.

On the way to the date I prepped myself. I do this everyday even if its for no particular reason, I think of all the reasons I am so happy, and all of the things I want for the day. So in this case, it was a seamless journey into London, and a perfect, positive meeting with Mr Date. (If you haven't read 'The Secret' you should...but I could talk about positive thinking for hours so Il maybe post another time about this!)

The driver dropped me off outside of the restaurant, and I hopped out of the car. Little white linen covered tables were dotted outside, paparazzi were hanging around (I'm still not sure who for although I was discreetly looking all through Dinner!) and I could laterally smell the sugar in the air.

I walked into the resturant, taking in scenery and people watching as I went -

And there he was.......

I saw him sat at a table - took a wild guess and popped my bag onto the seat next to him while introducing myself. Luckily, it was him and he looked very friendly and I felt at ease right away.

We ordered some wine, and chatted for a few hours. In between talking we ate some delicious Seafood and Oysters, Steak and Champagne. I liked how easy he was to talk to, although believe me I never stop talking so maybe that was just me! But we laughed, while I offended him a few times in a jokey way, luckily he found this endearing and he warmed to me :-) He complimented me on how I looked, and when I declined another bite of Chocolate dessert as id 'have to spend an extra hour in Pilate's' he lightly patted me on the bum and told me I was perfect. ;-) I wouldn't say that was true, but very sweet indeed!

Half way through dinner we had the 'allowance' chat. Now, I had prepared myself for this and knew exactly what I wanted. I had a feeling as it was quite high he might negotiate down a little, which I was happy for as id over compensated so that we could do! My mind was running over time, thinking stay calm, natural, direct..... when he offers out his hand for a hand shake and comes right out with an amount - which is more than my highest starting point :-) Perfect.

So all in all, we had the perfect date. We agreed to start something, so I am officially his Sugar Baby. Our next meeting is next week, where I am going to a dinner event with him. We are then going shopping the following morning, so I am looking forward to that!

I am very happy that I persevered, I knew that it would work out. Mr Date is kind, attentive, genuine, real, and generous. He will take very good care of me, as I will him. Its time for chapter two.... !

Excited Hugs and Kisses,

Baby Bow x x x

Can the stars be wrong? Is retail therapy always right?

After a good nights sleep in my own bed, which is always a luxurious feeling, I woke up to feel a little anxious about my lunch date ahead. I had a feeling, right from it being set the night before, that it wasn't going to happen - and that feeling was right.

I hadn't heard much from the gentleman in question - so I decided to call it off myself. I am not living in London at the moment, and traveling down to London just for lunch is one thing... Traveling down to London when your not sure your even meeting anyone just for lunch is entirely another.

So - what can a girl do when she feels a little disappointed? Shop. And Spray Tan.

Remember those Loubutins that Mr NY bought for me, the ones that didn't fit? Well I managed to send them back to netaporter and get a store online receipt which I hadn't yet used - so I bought myself a beautiful new pair of suede 'deva 120' fringed boots by Louboutin. You can see them in the picture, in sand colour. Just gorgeous. They are $1,095, (i love buying in $, it looks loads and then you work it out in £'s and 'feel' like its a bargain!) a little less than the ones Mr NY bought for me. Perfect result.

Talking of Mr NY, I wonder how he is? I really liked him it was such a shame he is so far away, and there wouldn't be enough opportunities to see him for an ongoing arrangement. He was hot, in my eyes anyway, I would have been major attracted to him with or without the sugar, which is always nice!

Then, after the boots (which honestly took me about 2 hours to choose because I couldn't decide) I went and had my eyebrows tinted, and a St Tropez spray tan. How can a girl feel sad with bronzed skin, dark neat eyebrows, and new shoes :-D

To end the afternoon on a better note, I have also made new plans that I hope will stick with the lunch date for a weeks time.

I'm out now with some girlfriends, have a great weekend all...

Love, Baby Bow xx

Dreams...

I have been in L.A for a few days, I just got back to the UK last night and I'm jet lagged!

In L.A I spent a lot of time relaxing, I went to get my nails done (clear natural gel which I have since painted with a nude glitter, and one corner of my thumb nail fell off already, crappy L.A nail salon :-)

I went shopping a little, bought a few nice things from forever 21 and the little boutiques I love to visit when I'm over there. I enjoyed the sunshine, and then in was time to fly home again.

Ive been thinking about the next year a lot, and I have many plans. I am so full of dreams and aspirations, my ambitions never stop growing. I always want to improve my self, my knowledge. I plan on making as many of my dreams come true over the next year, and I know that i can do it. I also know I cant do all of this in one year, I'm not superwoman, but il give it my best shot!

My to do list 1010:

• Learn to fly a light aircraft



• Start a degree



• Learn Chinese



• Have a steady sugar relationship



• Live back in London
  

Many of them are personal goals, not at all sugar related... but I know the sugar dating will help me to get there faster and with ease. And I love it. Plus, I'm kind of bored of being single, I really just want one guy to focus all this attention on right now....

Speaking of Sugar, I have a little date soon. Don't want to update too much but I will update after with good news..............

I have only had one day at home and tomorrow I'm going again to South Africa, I'm going to get my teeth whitened there which I'm looking forward to. Ive been working out lots to look good for my date, and I'm hoping that will add an extra sparkle!

Baby Bow xx

Looking for Apartments... A candy house!

Hello my sweeties,
I hope everyone is well!
This week I have decided I should move back to London, Ive wanted to do it for a little while now and I'm ready for it I think. I suppose it will be 100000 times easier to date, and see a SD regularly, plus I'm meeting all my potentials there anyway so its the place to be, the sugar capital!

So I've been looking on gum tree and Craig's list and I have two girl friends who want to move too, il keep you updated on that front! While I have been looking Ive been taking a cheeky glance at the 'above my price range' property's, oh how I long to live on the kings road! One day Kings road... one day my friend :-)

Ive also been chatting a little more to Mr Big, who I mentioned in a previous update to my blog. He is living out in NY and spends some time each month in London, well I googled him a little more and he is a major CEO. Good news.
Bad news is he is a little upfront. He wants to fly me out to NY and have me spend some time with him 'seeing how he lives' (It was that or the choice of a week at a beach spa resort) he owns shares in a well known nightclub and wants to take me there for a night out, shopping, etc. Mentions sex pretty often - as all SD's seem to do at the moment...

I mentioned id prefer, if he flew me out, to have my own hotel room booked for piece of mind and in case we don't get on, he seemed pretty shocked at this and told me he was quite offended that I don't respect how honorable he is.

I came to the conclusion - I will fly to NY with work if i can, have one night there in OCT where we can meet for dinner, meaning il have my flights and hotel booked so its better for me and he can remain as stubborn as he likes. Then, if we get along, he can fly me out the following week and I will stay with him once I feel I know him better.
I don't want to blow him out of the water just yet as I think he is major SD material. Big prospective Sugar Daddy.

I have been enjoying reading everyone's blogs, and

http://sugarcookiebaby.blogspot.com/'Sugar is Sweet' I wanted to comment on your last post but somehow it wont let me... so I am here...

I think you should give car guy a try - but tell him exactly what you said to us in your blog. Straight up. If you don't want to say it to his face, email it or text whatever, just say that to him. He will appreciate your honesty - and lets be honest your right on the money there (or not as it may be!) why would you want to spoil him by spending time with him if he A: doesn't spoil you B: wouldn't date you as your 'too young' C: wants to see how 'good the sex is!' first. So what do you gain out of that tediousness - nothing???

Tell him and the worst that can happen is he doesn't take it well, you will have lost nothing but gained time you may have other wise wasted. And then you can tell him bye!

Have a great weekend

Love from Baby bow x

Daydream...

So, a few days ago I had an appointment to go to in Mayfair - London. As I was walking through the perfect little sqaures, it got me to thinking. For anyone who knows the area, and for those who don't, its just a sugar baby's paradise. Beautiful houses, apartments, all set on squares with little parks, perfect trees, perfect roads, perfect views.

Outside each perfect apartment is the perfect car, a shiny Bentley or Mercedes, and out through each window you can see a perfect living area. At the front of each apartment building there is a glossy concierge, with marble steps and polished gold.

Out of each glistening black door steps a groomed to perfection business man, ready to take on the day with his Gucci suit and Breitling watch.

So as I wandered around this luxurious area, it became so much clearer to me what I want. And what I know I will get. I want one of those apartments, I want a Bentley parked outside. I want a closet full of Louboutins and Gucci, I want a concierge to collect my post and gifts from Net-a-porter.

I think sometimes you forget how much you want the sugar lifestyle - get caught up in your own life and then it takes something like that, a glimpse of everything you know you rightfully should have, and you realise it all over again...

Love Baby Bow x x x

Candy Land so far...

So, it looked like it was all going well and I had potentials lined up left right and centre, but things have seemed to quieten down. My favorite Mr NY has been very quiet, saying he is ill, so we will have to see how that pans out. If I don't get a message in the next few days or a phone call then i think Il start to concentrate on some of the others.... Although Mr NY does claim to have a gift in the post for me. Hmmmmmm we shall see.

Right now I'm loving Mr BA. Ive spoken to him a few times on web cam and I think he is endearing. He looks like a lot of fun, and I know he is serious and will spoil me rotten. He has mentioned he is happy to pay my rent every month, and buy me gifts. I'm hoping I can start like that and then edge up the allowance from rent to a greater amount, but for now Im happy with that to start! My rent will be expensive! ;-)

So I have my flight all booked to see Mr BA in Miami, and I will keep you updated with all of the little details.

I'm just about to go for dinner, the weather in London is amazing at the moment, so I quite fancy sitting outside with some wine and my girlfriends.

Love Baby Bow x