Baby goes to Hollywood...

So I just thought id give a quick update as im packing up the louis luggage for a few days and I wont be back until next week...

I hope every ones searches are going well! I have been speaking lots to Mr BA and im excited to meet him now, more so than I was before. The more I chat to him, the better I feel about it all, and the more attracted I am to him.

Mr NY is still 'sick' so we will see how that one goes, and more importantly if my gift turns up in the post or not, im still hoping to get out to Chicago to meet him, so Il have to see if he gets back in touch once the illness has gone ;-)

Ive also been chatting on the phone to a guy who lives near to me in the UK. He is 35, an ex pro ice hockey player, but now has his own business. I had him on my messenger, which was strange because I don't remember adding him, and I have never spoken to him really before....

So up he popped the other day and we got to chatting, he never mentioned the whole sugar thing, we just spoke about general stuff and he called me today to ask me out on a date when I get back to the UK next week. Im assuming I met him on SugarDaddie.com a while back, but he is cute and the kind of guy id see without any kind of 'arrangement' so its worth going out to dinner with him!

Tomorrow morning im of to LA with some girl friends for the weekend. Its one of our favorite places to go, and we go usually once every month if we can. If there are any LA sugar babys around come and join the party! We will probably just chill and shop, go party in les deux or My house and have some fun!

Have a great weekend everybody,

Love Baby Bow x

Candy Land so far...

So, it looked like it was all going well and I had potentials lined up left right and centre, but things have seemed to quieten down. My favorite Mr NY has been very quiet, saying he is ill, so we will have to see how that pans out. If I don't get a message in the next few days or a phone call then i think Il start to concentrate on some of the others.... Although Mr NY does claim to have a gift in the post for me. Hmmmmmm we shall see.

Right now I'm loving Mr BA. Ive spoken to him a few times on web cam and I think he is endearing. He looks like a lot of fun, and I know he is serious and will spoil me rotten. He has mentioned he is happy to pay my rent every month, and buy me gifts. I'm hoping I can start like that and then edge up the allowance from rent to a greater amount, but for now Im happy with that to start! My rent will be expensive! ;-)

So I have my flight all booked to see Mr BA in Miami, and I will keep you updated with all of the little details.

I'm just about to go for dinner, the weather in London is amazing at the moment, so I quite fancy sitting outside with some wine and my girlfriends.

Love Baby Bow x

Tasting the sweet life...

I was wondering what every ones reasons for finding a sugar daddy are? Do you have a specific reason you want one, like college, being a student etc. How are every ones searches going so far?

For me, I like nice things. Its a simple as that. In life I generally go to nice places, with or without a sugar daddy. I like high class bars, and I want more of the good life. I have ambitions and dreams that I think having the support of a sugar daddy would help me to achieve. Apart from that I like material things, I just fall in love with bags and shoes, I love everything about them. Il go to an expensive designer store and I can stare at the shoes for hours, and wish I could own them.

I cannot wait for the moment that I post on here to inform you all of my Christian Louboutin cherry being popped! ;-)

I like to have my hair done at nice salons, I like to have Cinderella hair extensions. I like to have a st tropez spray tan once a week, and I like to go to a good gym, if like to have a personal trainer even more. I like to keep my nails looking good, id like to be able to treat my girlfriends to spa days. I like to buy people beautiful gifts.

I like Jimmy Choo. I like Louis Vuitton...Louis and I go way back. I like going to expensive restaurants, I like drinking Champagne when ever I go out, I like to be able to go to a club with my girlfriends and buy a table. I like to travel, and I like to look f*cking fantastic while I do it all. ;-)

Baby Bow x

Finding a man of mint...

If like me...you are looking for a minted man, then I have a few tips I have picked up from other successful baby's and I shall pass them on :-)

Now, finding the Daddy of Sugar. Personally, I like to use websites such as seeking arrangement and sugardaddie.com. I find them the best of their kind, and although there are some unfortunate men, there are also many diamonds to be found!

I have also heard of other Sugar Baby's using Craig's list, but I have not tried this. Even some using Gum Tree, again, its not something I have tried out myself.

When you have found the guy you like, and a date is mentioned, think about the kind of situation you would prefer? On the one hand, some baby's like to meet for a coffee (quick, easy, and you may allow for multiple dates in one day, so go easy on the caffeine!) or on the other hand you may prefer to be wined and dined and make a fabulous evening of it.

I think both have advantages, a quick coffee means that you can leave pretty quickly if he has the looks of a bulldog and the wallet of a tramp. But a long dinner will lead to many clues to show you the guys wealth, and also you will get the chance to dress up and show how you are first class arm candy of the best possible kind!

I always think its good to keep a look out for;
A coutts bank card
A black American Express
A nice pair of shoes, classic wallet, and an expensive watch
Good fitting clothes

It is also important to watch the way your date interacts with people like the waiters, and bar staff... another tip when planning where to go is to ask him where he usually likes to go - and then pray its not pizza express.

This may all seem a little over the top or untrusting, but lets be honest there are some idiots out there who think you will get all dressed up and spend your time with them for absolutely nothing, without even a mention of our old friend Louis.

I personally like to speak about the 'arrangement' details, money...times per month...expectations etc before any meeting, as this saves your time if they are clueless and also is less awkward and you can then concentrate on having a fantastic night.

Love Baby Bow x

Sugar Sweet Secrets...

I was wondering how many of you fellow sugar baby's keep your sugar affair a secret. Do you tell your friends, work mates, or maybe just a select few? Or do you tell no one, absolutely no one about the sugar sweet arrangement?

Personally, I tell lots of people. I don't go into loads of details, and I only tell people I know will approve, and then they usually go do the same! I have a few work friends who know, and they are now on a sugar search them selves.

My best friend Charlotte and a few of my close friends also know. I like to be honest as I think its safe to have at least one or two people know where you are, and with whom your spending your time.

I also think its exciting and I like have someone to talk about it all with! I find the search for sugar as exciting as the actual thing itself, and I like to be able to have a chat about it to somebody close.

I would not tell my family, as I think they would disapprove a little. Once I have my new sugar daddy I will tell them about the relationship, skillfully without using any words like 'arrangement' 'sugar daddy' or mutually beneficial relationship' !

I hope everyone had an amazing weekend! I am really enjoying reading every ones blogs that I'm following!

Love Baby Bow x

Wait all day for a bus.... Then four come along at once

Hello sugar girls and boys,

Thought id give a little update, I am going to try and write at least once or twice a week to keep it interesting, I hate reading blogs and then they go quiet I feel like I'm in suspense to find out what happened! So Ill try to not do that with this one...

The international search is going well. Why is it you wait all day for a bus, then four come along at once! Well, I have this but the buses are in fact rich sugar daddy men, the bus ticket is allowances, and the bus stop is the comfort of my own home ;-)

I have been chatting to yet another potential, who is from Boston. So depending on how dates go with BA and NY, a trip to Boston may be on the cards.

The guy is good looking, wants to see me 1-2 times per month and when he comes to the UK, and is happy with an allowance etc. He seems genuine and reliable and is very polite and sweet. I haven't actually seen a picture yet, but he works out and says he is considered attractive by many.

I'm holding out for Mr NY to be honest... he is my favorite. He is so hot, and I really think I could get it all from him if I play my cards right... Only time, and a meeting will tell.

I'm glad that I am chatting to a few and keeping my options open, I'm still not sure how many I would like, but I think two is a good amount and do-able! I have also been thinking a lot about allowance amounts, and what is too much, too little... What do you ask your sugar daddy's for, and how do you justifie it?

Love Baby Bow x

All About Bow...

I have had a few e-mails and comments asking me different things about myself, and I realised I have never properly introduced myself... so I'm doing just that :-)

I am 22 years old, British, and I spend most of my time now in London although I have been living in Manchester for a few years previously. I fly as cabin crew / air hostess/ trolley dolly for a very well known high profile English airline, and it is a whole load of fun... I cant really even call it a job, and I am happy every time I go to work its wonderful.

So I get to travel the world, The US, Middle East, Asia, Caribbean Islands, Australia, Africa.... I get to tan, party, travel first class in many cases, shop and date all over the world - and I love love it.

I'm around 5'3 tall, blonde hair which I like to wear big and wavy. I have been a 'Wag' for a few years, I now prefer a sugar daddy (Footballers are absolute tossers and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!)

I don't drive, I have a pretty curvy frame, 34 C/D, and a Jessica bunny shape I have been told! I'm around a size 12 UK. I like to work out, but I don't very often! I love all of my friends and my family, and I think I'm quite a caring friendly little lady.

Girlie things I love, pink, sparkles, jewels, being treated like a princess, puppy's, very cliche I know but that's just me. I love champagne, nice dinners, beautiful hotels, travel, conversation. I am very romantic and I truely believe I will be swept of my feet by someone who will take my breath away...

I am planning on starting a degree soon because I cannot be a tart with a cart forever. Id also like to set up my own boutique store, and run my own online business.

I hate ageism, it is one of my pet hates. I believe you can be friends with someone, lovers, whatever relationship you like, NO MATTER what their age. Why would it matter? A guy who is now 55 was once 22, a guy who is 40 was once 14. To me the older we get, we still keep all of those ages, we just learn more and grow wiser. I think hot men get hotter with age.

Some people say I look like Jeniffer Ellison, some others say Holly Willoughby. If I could choose to look like anyone it would be Jessica Simpson. I would love a piece of Bradley Cooper!

Love always, Baby Bow x x x

Introducing Mr NY...

After introducing Mr BA yesterday, I thought I would introduce my next potential international sugar. Mr NY... yes you guessed it, Located in NY.

Like B.A, I am planning on meeting him in July.

Now, Mr NY is different to Mr B.A in many ways, firstly he has a lesser net worth and income (but still well able to be a sugar daddy for me) and he seems much warmer, and more genuine. I have a feeling he is a good person... He is very well known in what he does, and well respected but unlike B.A he is married.

This does bother me in a very small way, Il be honest, like a little niggling in the back of my mind. But my motto is, I'm not the one who is married. Surely the worry should really lie in his shoulders, and not mine.

I have enjoyed speaking to NY, and I have seen quite a few pictures of him and OMMMG I am attracted to him that is for sure. So far, so good for NY.

I'm trying to arrange my month, and how and when I'm going to fit these two dates in. I do have more potentials, but I'm focusing on these two and keeping the others chatting away until the time is right for them...

In both of these places, I know my way around a little and I know a few good places to go, but obviously only through a tourists eyes. Do you think it would be a good idea to get the potentials to meet me in my hotel bar/lobby and take me from there to our date... or meet them in chosen bar/restaurant?

What do you think are good first sugar dates? What do you like to do the first time you meet a potential?

Love Baby Bow x

Introducing Mr B.A...

OK, so during July I am going to be meeting some of my new international sugar. Firstly, I will tell you about Mr BA. We will call him BA for the pure and simple fact that he carries and owns a BLACK AMEX. The elusive, sure sign of sugar daddy worthiness.

That alone has guaranteed him a date with Bow, and Bow expects the card to be out in full force!

I met this particular Sugar Daddy on Seeking Arrangement.com. He is in Miami, which is somewhere I frequently visit, so the logistics of seeing him will not be a problem. He has a beautiful house by the ocean, and is so far saying all the right things.

I told him of my love of shoes and shopping, and he promised on out first meeting a shopping trip... so far. so good. He also sent me $600, via paypal, just to show me he is interested. Not a huge deal, and by no means BLACK AMEX standards... but to say I have never met the guy I think this was a pretty cool gesture.

Now, onto the one and only problem. The looks. Now, fellow sugar baby's you must understand, I am attracted to older men. I like them, they like me. So that is not so much a problem. And in the past my boyfriends (not SD, just the regular poor type ;-) have been pretty average looking. Im all about the personality... Don't get me wrong, I appreciate a good looking man, and a good looking older man.... well I'm week at the knees at the thought!

So my question is.... Do looks really matter?

If you find the perfect Sugar Daddy, the right allowance, etc but from photos your not so sure if you would be attracted to him - would you still go? Would you carry on a relationship with a guy if everything is perfect, just not the looks, not the attraction. Does the BLACK AMEX - cancel it out?

I know in the past I have met people, who I have been attracted to but if I had seen them on paper or a picture, i wouldn't have so much..... the charisma, charm and confidence has outweighed all the other stuff, and every woman in the room was looking.

So, should I take a chance? Would you play, with B.A? ;-)

Love Baby Bow x

Daddy Etiquette...

When you are out with your sugar daddy, or on a date, how do you like to be treated? Are there certain things you look out for? Sure fire signs that impress you?

I have always been the kind of girl to like an older man, I like the sophistication, the way they walk, the way the talk. I think an older man carries himself in a way that guys my age just don't get.

I want to be taken to beautiful restaurants, I want him to show me the wine list and when it comes to pour each glass for me. I want him to ask me what I would like to eat, and order it on my behalf... I want him to open the car door, and to bring me gifts.... To hold a door open. I want him to know what I want in bed, and to satisfy me before he thinks of satisfying himself... If I'm thirsty in the night I want him to jump right out of bed and bring me water.

I know some may think this is old fashioned and some plain sexist, but I like to be taken care of by a man like this. And manners are all part of it!

I like a man to show a sense of selflessness, to think of me and others first, to show self control and honesty, these are all qualities that draw me... even more so than looks!

And if anyone has not been fortunate enough to date or be with a man like this, they do exist, you just have to seek them out.

I want a gentleman, not a man. And a true gentleman is always a gentleman, even when no one is looking ;-)

Love Baby Bow x

Its all about the money...honey

So, a little introduction to my current sugar lump. He is from London, I do not see him very often, but he regularly sends gifts and funds via paypal. He is a busy man, and while he is very generous for the little time he does spend with me.... its leaves me yearning for more...

I am away often, so what I have decided is this. Multiple Sugar Daddy's.
Id like a man in every port, or should I say Daddy in every port. I quite like the idea of having different relationships, so I'm interested to see how this will pan out.

So far I have an acquaintance in L.A, I have yet to meet him... although he did send me something via paypal, of his own accord. Very generous and not at all expected, but it shows me that he is keen, willing and of course...able.

Second, I have Chicago. I'm pretty confident about this one, he is hot, and I think I could wrap him round my little finger quite nicely ;-)


And thirdly, A very handsome gentleman here in London. We are going to meet soon for drinks, he is American, but living in London.

Money wise, I'm not sure yet what I will ask for... that will depend on how many I genuinely get along with and would like to see again. If I liked all three, id be happy with say £1000 a month from each, If i drop one, the other two will have to up their game :-)

I use seeking arrangement to seek out my daddy's, Ive always found it the best. Its free, easy, and there are plenty of guys. Most* know what being a sugar daddy is all about, which of course is always an added bonus!

Ideally, Id like enough to be able to pay my rent (somewhere new, shiny, and central) save a little, have no debts, and of course be able to buy the odd pair of Louboutins and a Chloe bag here and there!

What do you fellow sugar baby's feel happy with? How much is too much? How much is too Little?


Too much of a good thing... can be wonderful,


Love Baby Bow x

A Sugar Sweet Welcome...

My name is Bow, and I am a sugar baby.

I am 21 years old, live in London, United Kingdom and I love my life.

I currently have a sugar daddy, but I am on the search for International Sugar... you see I have a job, which allows me to travel. United States, Asia, Australia, The middle Middle East... so I come to the conclusion that my sugar possibility's are endless, and distance is certainly no object!

In this blog, I will share all of the juicy details of my current sugar relationship... and the even juicer details of my quest for fresh sweetness :-)

Lots of Love, Baby Bow x