How Baby Bow was Born ♥...Sugar days gone by...♥

Ive mentioned in previous posts that I have an 'ex' Sugar Daddy. Someone who introduced me to this whole scene, and made me realise I can get what I want, just like back then - again...

Though Ive mentioned him, I have never gone into detail. I'm not sure if this post will help other aspiring Sugar Baby's or Daddy's, its really just really a post that a few of you might be interested in, as it shows how naturally things can happen sometimes, without the help of websites such as SeekingArrangement and SugarDaddie.com.

So Il call him Big. Now, Big was in his 40-50's, a Middle Eastern mixed British man, quite tall and heavy set, but not fat. His looks reminded me a lot of 'BIG' in Sex and the city, hence the name.

Now Big had been the aire to a hotel chain, I like to call him the Paris Hilton of his company. His parents had owned it, passed it on, and he now ran it as well as owning other unrelated side line. A fully fledged billionaire, who whilst being appreciative of the life he was born into, worked hard to make his own stamp on the business world.

This hotel chain is as well known, if not more so, than Hilton. Its one of the main hotel chains in the world, luxurious and plush. Everyone will have heard of it, if not stayed at one at some stage.

I met Big in a co-incidental way. His family are actually family friends of my own, although I had never mixed with Big before, I knew of his relations. One evening I had been modeling on a really trashy lingerie show in a London club, they had us parading around in our smalls, all in the name of 'fashion' but we all knew it was really so the D list celebrity's could 'admire' (Read: Perv) on us!

After the show, a model who had been working with me and my friend T and I decided to head to a club. We danced the night away next to the VIP tables, when Big caught our eye. He invited myself and T to sit with him, and the drinks started flowing. My other friend from the fashion show stayed for a little while, but got bored quite quickly and left.

I immediately noticed how powerful big was, in every way. He made you feel like you were the only girl in the room when he locked his eyes onto yours, he could manipulate you with his words, making you want to spend more time around him. He was dangerous and naughty, the kind of man your mother would certainly not want you to go home with.

As we sat around the table, Big pulled out a tiny paper wrap, the size of a postage stamp. He unfolded the intricately cut paper, to reveal a white Powder which he shook out onto the back of his hand. In full view of the club and the surrounding party people he took a straw from the tall vase on the table, and snorted it up in one sweeping motion. I asked if he minded people seeing, he told me he owned 50% of the club and they knew better.

This was to be the first of many times Big used cocaine around me, but I remember this first time, its crystal clear, as I had never even seen the stuff before, let alone tried it as a recreation. I think I was 18.

After the club, we headed back to Big's house. It was a huge bachelor pad in London's Mayfair, I mean this place was out of this world. It had a helicopter pad, pool, round revolving beds, a cinema, 3 floors, just craziness. I remember running around giggling as I explored every room.

Now this particular night, Big had been sat next to my friend in the club. We hadn't had much of a chance to speak and it seemed my friend was into him so I sat and watched movies with his friend, while silver trays of cocaine and silver shot glasses were passed around, just like party food. A few hours later, my friend ran into the cinema room and shouted that we needed to get out of there!!! I grabbed my stuff, and much to the Big's bemusement we jumped into the lift to the ground floor. Big followed us, looking calm and relaxed, and asked us where we wanted to go. There were no taxis around, so in the end he persuaded us to get in his car, and he drove us home himself.

When we got home, I asked my friend what the problem was, really worried at this point that Big had tried to rape her. She laughed it off, saying of course not, but he had asked her to see him a few times per month for £5000. He said if she spent the night with him then she could take this, and he had handed her a huge wad of £50 notes, bigger than her clutch bag. It was too awkward, T is quite conservative and it shocked her... so she wanted to leave. She said she was outraged, and we believed he had asked her to be a prostitute, which we both found hilarious.

In the back of my mind I kept thinking, I wonder why she didn't do it. He was a good looking man, with a magnetism you couldn't deny, and to be honest with all the drink and the atmosphere I could have seen it happening with or without the 'gifts'.... I kept thinking what would she spend 5k on?! How would she tell her parents she had it? Would she regret it? Would that be being a prostitute??

I put Big to the back of my mind, but remained curious about the idea. Until fate bought us together again.....

To be continued

(Because I want to include all the stories and details but I cant write i all in one post!)

Baby Bow xx

Ive been in Miami B*tch!

I just arrived back from Miami where I spent some of the weekend, it was a little cooler than I expected so I spend most of my time there shopping!

I decided to take myself on a 'sugar spree' with my own spondolies, id rather it be someone Else's, but hey sometimes a girl needs to shop! I updated my make up bag in Sephora, I bought some Nars Sheer Glow and I have to say it is the best foundation I have ever used, along with a few new brushes and a Laura Mercier eye pallate.

Almost $200 later and I decided I had dropped enough on just make up. I love Sephora, I like the way you can browse and try everything and anything on that you like without hassle. In the UK, we dont really speak to each other in stores much and this is one of the main differences I notice spending time in the US and the UK.

In the UK you can basically do your whole shopping, without speaking to a single person. You can walk in, fill your basket, browse, serve yourself at a self serve checkout, leave and have not even said hello. In the US you get greeted at the door, asked if your 'ok' one million times, followed around, asked if your ready to checkout, and it goes on and on! I don't know which I prefer, I think it depends on your mood!

My sugar world is picking back up after Christmas, I am so excited to move into my own sugar pad!

Things are really great and I have lots planned, which il do posts on soon. I'm also thinking of doing a post describing my ex SD and the life style I led with him, as I realise I have only ever referred to it, but not gone into detail, and that's where I learnt a lot.

Happy New Year!

BB xx

I dont exercise... If God had wanted me to bend over, he would have put Diamonds on the floor ♦

I hope everyone had a fabulous Christmas.

Mine was so enjoyable, being at home with my friends and my family, watching everybody open their gifts and opening gifts of my own.

Now, its all over. I look forward to the new year, and all the plans I have to make :-)

January is going to be a busy time for me, I have many new years resolutions and so much that I want to do. Il be fairly busy with work, but want to fit a move into this, plus the goose has gotten fat and I need to exercise. Eugh.

I'm going to take Hoodia which is a natural appetite suppressant, I like it and I think once its into you system its very effective. I like to eat healthily, so il be enjoying plenty of fruit, veg, seeds and cutting out most carbs and fats. I also like making yummy protein shakes or veg juices and drinking a few of these per day.

Il be training on a power plate - a device that vibrates and shakes the fat, making it easier to break down. It also equals the equivalent of hours of exercise in a short 15 minute session. Il also try to run every few days, which is hard for me because I hate it! But its effective, so Il try.

I'm hoping when I move to central London il enjoy exercise more. I have heard lots of celebrity's and rich men run around Green Park, and as il be not too far away I may incorporate a bit of running with my sugar hunts!

If you have a little time off over the festive season and feel like you haven't watched quite enough movies, check out this film. The Girl Friend Experience. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u4A2xCwQsMo Its essentially the story of an escort, and follows her life during the economic downturn.

A sugar baby is, of course, not an escort - but I found it interesting none the less. The lead actress is actually a porn star, and her acting leaves a lot to be desired (although some say its not the acting, but her portrayal of a rather flat character)

You can find it online if you fancy watching the whole thing.

So, im off to eat some cheese and busicuts. Bad Baby Bow, but the new year isnt in yet! Im pretty excited about 2010... I think it has a rather nice ring to it, dont you think?

A De Beers ring, lets hope.

New Year Love,

Baby Bow xxx

Finding the Diamonds, in the Dirt ♦

Recently I received a few e-mails, all asking a particular question. Where do I find these Sugar Daddies? A higher calibre potential? A diamond daddy?

It made me think through the ways I search, and the types I respond to and have dates with. I thought it might make an interesting post, and certainly might give a few hints to others.

Firstly, I have a few golden rules. These rules need to be stretched, moulded and shaped - to fit your ideal situation.

For example, my situation is this. I want a long term daddy, I want him to be willing and able to provide me with an allowance. This allowance should be monthly, and high. He should have experience in life, and be able to mentor me. I want to learn from him. He should be supportive. That's just the points that I am personally looking for. So, going from that, this is what I look for.

• Daddy should have a high net worth



• Daddy should be willing, and able to have this relationship, and understand what it entails



• Daddy should know what he wants



• Daddy should have his own business, be a CEO, or be retired!

Now, this might seem a little strange, but I have reasons behind them.

High net worth: Obvious reasons, the higher the worth, the richer the man, the more suitable a contender to be a sugar daddy. That said, if he is worth 100Mil but has homes here there and everywhere, an ex wife, 10 children at private school, a jet to fuel... where is my Birkin going to come from? I don't want him to have to re mortgage a house to keep my feet wrapped in Choo and my neck wrapped in Diamonds. The income needs to be disposable, or, at least, he will want to share his 'lifestyle' with you.

Willing and Able: Sometimes we come across potential sugar daddies, who haven't played the game before, or don't know what it entails. They seem shocked at the basics, and these people I write off asap, if not sooner.! There are far too many sugar big fishes in the sea, to play e-mail ping pong with someone who wont cut to the chase, or who you feel uncomfortable bringing the important stuff up with. We may come across men who are willing, but don't have the means to go ahead - be in financially, mentally, physically, tied up time, etc. We may come across men who are able in these ways - but are not willing. Discard these daddy's, but don't cut ties in a hasty manor.

Know what you want: Just as you should be clear on what you want - you want daddy to be the same. I think its best to dive straight in, negotiate if needed, and respectfully make your intentions clear. Its not unusual for 'the talk' to not come up, date after date, and before you know it things have gotten confused and you don't know how to say it. I believe this is the mans role, and they should lay an offer on the table. If they are not, give them a nudge. If they don't respond, send them a text/e-mail being honest and truthful about how you feel (if its awkward to ask, say so) and ask them how they would like to go forward. Never worry about 'loosing' a potential for being honest. You are both there for a reason. If he is a business man, he will understand negoation and appreciate you being 'up front'. Your on his grounds now, and he should take the lead.

Business/CEO/Retired: Id like to find a man to learn from. I am intelligent, I don't just want to gain for the here and now. I want to gain future skills, set up my own business, more than one, I want a baby bow empire. He will teach me everything he knows, maybe even help to set this up. To do this, he needs the experience from his own business, to running a business, or if he is retired, he can be interested in helping me to set up my own. Mentoring and sponsoring.

So this is my formula. All of these = a good potential in my eyes, and get a date ;-)

These are my own guidelines, but every one has their own. If your looking for different things, my rules wont apply, but its good to make your own.

But remember, rules are there to be broken ;-) And I break the rules...

Merry Christmas!

Baby Bow xx

☆Sugar Sweet Christmas To You All☆

I had a play around with the layout of my blog and was so happy to find a really cute layout... I only just worked out how to do it! But anyway, I have had to remove it because as pretty as it looked my comments were not working, and I love reading comments, there my favorite!

So what are all of you hoping to receive this Christmas? What are you getting for your Sugar Daddy's? Any new years resolutions?

Here is Baby Bows Sugar Wish List:

• Yves Saint Laurent * Tribtoo Patent Leather Pumps * Grey
• Judith Leiber *Cupcake Crystal-Embellished Clutch (Pictured, Uber expensive, dont know if id really want one! Id feel excessive!)
• Christain Louboutin Barbie Doll
• Smythson Diary
• A week on the Pink Sand resort in the Bahamas
  

This list is purely a 'wish' list, I wont be getting any of these things, hopefully one day I will, but for now its nice to dream :-) Id love to see any one else's wish lists - purely self indulgent sugar wish lists - we all want world peace but this is just for the things money can buy! A little escapism if you will :-)

In other news, I am planning a move. I have found two lovely places in Westminster and South Kensington, in my own price range so that's all the better. I think Il move in Jan, and then il really be able to enjoy myself! Mr Perfect has been giving me lots of advice, and it will be nice to so central.

I have many personal goals for the new year, and many sugar goals. I feel like the sugar world over the last year has been like a little game to me. I am always picky with who actually gets a date, which may be a bad thing as it can limit who I meet, but in other ways it usually results in all of my sugar dates being successfully - and most offering me an arrangement of some sort.

I then have tended to turn the arrangement down, for what ever reason. I set my sights quite high allowance wise, because I know it is possible - I have had this in the past -and I like my 'dating' sugar daddy's. I have not been desperate to start an arrangement, as I personally don't *need* to start one immediately, I just want to live somewhere grand and own more shoes. But I have enjoyed the year by meeting new people and I have gained a lot more than £ and gifts. I have gained knowledge, and friends.

Now, with this important knowledge I feel I can secure my sugar daddy in 2010. I don't think Ive been ready to do this in 09, I've been gathering and harvesting the sugar ready for the new year. I am armed with more sugar than I thought was possible, options all lined up and ready for the new seasons. Waiting for stage two. I have got rid of the pointless potentials, erased them from my blackberry, and kept the 'diamond daddy's' on the back burner.

2010 is going to be my year, and I am going to pounce ladies and gents!

Christmas Wishes And Seasons Greatings,

Love... Baby Bow x

Who hid the Louboutins? More Mr Perfect dates

Met Mr Perfect for lunch yesterday, he had text me asking if I would like to join him so we arranged to meet in a pretty famous London eatery. He got held up, but I didn't mind and sat at our table ordering wine and olive bread and watching all the 'Sloan rangers' from Sloan square, the ladies who lunch, and a fair few sugar daddy's and their girls :-)

Mr Perfect arrived, looking much better than I have ever seen him look before. He usually dresses quite casual when I see him but this day he had on a gorgeous suit and the most beautiful watch, and his hair looked cute.

We laughed all through lunch, and spent as long as we could there until we got kicked out. He hailed me a taxi, and off I went to a party with some friends. Ive spoke to him since, I like to see where things are going with him but I don't want to push anything, he is looking for something real, and real things take time. He treats me exactly how I like to be treated and I can talk to him for hours, he is not pushy and has not even tried to kiss me, only ever on the cheek, and all sexual talk has so far been on lock down :-)

At the party someone stole my Loubutins***FML*** You may be wondering why I was wandering round a party barefoot, but it was at a house and i thought a bit of barefoot carpet dancing was called for... so off they came, and a few minutes later were no where to be seen. I found one, in a bush, hmmmmm. Jealous girls much???

So I'm mourning my louboutin boots, but apart from that I'm a happy baby. This weekend, if all goes well I am going on a fabulous sugar date with a new potential - il introduce him after, and give you the juicy date details! We have been arranging something for a while, really get along via e-mail as we have a lot in common, his allowance is a little lower than I expect but he knows this, and I'm happy to negotiate, as he wont be my one and only.

BB xxxxxxx

♥O to the M to the G ♥

Mr Perfect and I have been speaking on the phone, and he asked if I would like to meet him in London. It was unfortunate that I was busy this week, and on the few free days that I had were prior arranged - a spa day with a friend. After our chat, I mentioned the spa I was going to, and as its quite well known Mr P had heard of it (even though it is miles out of London, in the countryside)

I spent some time in the spa, had a mani and a sugar salt scrub, massage and used the steam room. I decided I was a little restless after doing not a lot all day so I got dressed out of my flurry white robe and walked to a near by park with my friend, taking her dog for a walk.
All at once I got a few messages through, they were from Mr Perfect asking if I minded calling him back. I stepped out of the park and called him, and he asked what I was doing. I said I felt hungry and my girlfriend was going home now as she had to work, so I planned on going back home.

Mr perfect then asked if id join him for dinner, that evening in London. I explained that it was far and he said don't worry il fly you down just for dinner, then you can go back to the country to stay with your friend, or go back home, either way il get you there. This offer was too good to refuse, I knew he was planning on going to the Ivy and I love their bang bang chicken in peanut sauce and the dressed crab... yum..... Bow hearts the Ivy.

So off I went to this little local airport, I'm thinking - I'm sure they don't actually have airlines fly out of here?! But I went along anyway, because I know I travel a lot but I don't know too much about small airports. So I get there, in my Pink Victoria Secret sweats, juicy couture welly boots, and a big hoodie (I had been in the park so glamour was not on the cards - and yes, I like to dress like a 5 year old when I'm cosy!) and low and behold it is not an airport, just a private air field of some sort.

Then my blackberry rings and its Mr Perfect, I speak and as I speak I hear him behind me. I turn around, and OMG he is there in his own plane picking me up! We hopped in, and off we flew down to London. Not only was this Mr Perfects own plane, but he was flying it himself, so fun. We landed, and he arranged for a driver to pick us up, and take us to the Ivy. Luckily I had a little black dress in my bag that id taken from my girlfriends house before I left in preparation, Bow is always thinking! I had a few pins in my bag and I scrapped my hair up into a messy chiagon, I smelt of sugar from the sugar rub and scrub, and Mr perfect didn't seem to care!

Baby Bow xxx

Colouring outside of the lines....

So today I decided to change my blogs name from 'Sugar Memoirs' to 'Memoirs Of A Sugarbaby' this is just because I wanted to originally call it that, but I have only just got around to changing the name.... Plus I wanted to add a cute heart.

So this week has been rather strange, in my personal life I have had a fabulous week. In my sugar life, I have had an unexpected week... As I received a text from Mr Date and ended up meeting him for Lunch. I'm not going to go into too much detail purely because I don't know what is going on right now, but there you go. I dont trust him as far as I could throw him, but I like him. Strange indeed. Promising.maybe? Watch this space...

In other news, I am loving Mr Perfect and I think he is someone I am going to spend a lot of time with. I can see this being a long drawn out process, with regards to allowance and liaisons, this is mainly due to the fact that Mr Perfect spends a lot of time traveling, as do I, and time to meet up on home ground may be limited. The other 'issue' with Mr Perfect is he is looking for a girlfriend, rather than an arrangement.

I, personally, do not find this a problem. Some sugar baby's may run a mile, but these are my reasons not to.

Firstly, I don't have a boyfriend/partner/current SD. So its not like my 'girlfriend' role is all taken, and I am a very, very good girlfriend (if I do say so myself :-)

I find the two things...being a GF or a SB...similar, with only a few blurred differences. Before you run a mile at the word Girlfriend, take this into consideration.

As a Sugar baby we arrange the whole thing, sometimes from the exact start and sometimes even to the exact date of finish. We see our time as limited, and we only go as far as the rules or 'terms' allow us. We ask: Where do we meet? How long for? How many times per month? How is allowance paid? How often? Weekly? Monthly? Will I travel? Will I come to you? Will you come to me? Will we stay over night? Sex? How often? Gifts? When?

As a Girlfriend, these same issued are covered, but with less of boundary's, we gain our SD's full trust, his admiration and affection, we know exactly where one another stands and we genuinely respect each other. Once we have this, we can build on a truly rewarding relationship, where we gain far more and feel more secure, more content. We can ask, and have the right to what ever we like, what we want will be ours, as our SD knows a happy SB is a rewarding SB :-) As a girlfriend sugar baby, we can colour outside of the lines.

Mr Perfect is currently in Asia, at a four seasons resort, and keeps sending me cute picture messages of his time there and frequent updates. I really appreciate this and I cant wait to see him again. Although I like him very much, and I think he is a diamond of a daddy, I am continuing to see other potentials. I really want to have a base of 2-3 daddy's, ones to fall back on when the others haven't come through, all the while il be nurturing my relationship with Mr Perfect, and eventually id be happy to just have him :-)

Lots Of Love,

Baby Bow xx

♥ I left my heart in ♥ Tokyo ♥

I'm back, and jet lagged! Eugh I feel horrendous and I have the busiest week with really important work stuff going on, ahhh too much in too little time!!!

I had so much fun while I was away, I went out for the most delicious dinner in a restaurant recommended by Mr Perfect. He really is so thoughtful, after I told him I was going to Tokyo for a few days he told me that he used to spend a lot of time there and that he would recommend some places. The day before I left he sent me a huge e-mail with enough drinks/cocktail/wine/dinner/lunch/afternoon tea suggestions, enough for a month there :-)

The place we chose was amazing, and myself and my friends had a great time.

I also may have picked up a little sugar while I was there. I was by the pool in the shade under cabana, reading a book and drinking diet coke and eating calamari salads...ummm yum...with friends. Opposite me were two business men, who were later joined by a third. All were very smartly dressed, nice suits, and had a bottle of wine. They were obviously admiring the view of myself and my friends, although I was really not prepared for the hour of flirty looks and winks, tongue pokes, and smiles coming my way from business man number 1. I had on a multi coloured maxi dress over bikini bottoms, my hair scraped up and no make up on, not my best moment I'm sure.

So I notice the waiter circling our table, over and over. I used this opportunity to ask for the bill, saying 'I only have an hour until I leave so id like to pay'. The waiter was carrying on with his walking around us looking busy, and I was starting to wonder why, I just wanted to pay my bill!

Later, the waiter walks over to business man number 1, talks in hushed voices, and comes straight to me with my bill. I open it to find a note, and a paid bill. The quickly scrawled note said ' Only an hour left? But We haven't even met...' so I stood up and walked over the table. He met me half way, we spoke and I asked how he knew I had only an hour until I flew home... his answer, he had tipped the waiter to listen in on anything I said so that he could find out about me.... strange but I liked the honesty and the balls, so we branched off from our respective tables, sitting in the hotel lobby and talking for half an hour or so.

He kept asking if he could send me a bottle of wine to my room for me to get ready with, but I explained I was working that evening and so wouldn't be drinking beforehand. I thought this was sweet.

Business man one told me he is separated, 2 kids, a stock broker, South African and his offices are v v close to where I stay in South Africa. He is white, dark hair, well built, tall, and has a scar which I love, I like a rough around the edges James Bond look, I love character. He was charming and we got along well, So I gave him my number and he is taking me out on my next trip over :-)

In other news, Mr Perfect has gone on vacay for a week, which is great because I need to concentrate as I have a big week this week. We will meet when he arrives home. Mr Shot Myself In The Foot is ill, which also bodes well for me as I don't want him to think I'm putting him off, I'm just too busy this week.

There are other pots on the back-burner, so many to choose from I love the sugar seas right now!

Loving reading everyones posts, a lot of blogs retuning after a break which I love!

Kisses, Baby Bow xx

These are a few of bows favorite things....

Since joining Facebook I have had a few messages and e-mails asking me about certain outfits and beauty products Ive mentioned in past blogs. I am going to be quite a busy little baby over the next week so I have decided to make a post, just about fashion and beauty.

If you enjoy this post and would like to share your tips leave a comment, or better a post if your a blogger too, shared advice is sweeter advice!

Before I ever had any kind of sugar daddy, before this sugar world was but a twinkle in my eye, I used to wish I could have designer purses, bags and shoes. I think that if your shoes and purse look expensive, it pulls together the rest of your outfit, so it doesn't matter if that is from topshop. Although your potential Sugar Daddy will understand you don't quite have the funds for your lifestyle yet, that's what your there for after all, they will appreciate seeing a glimpse of how well you dress and how stylish you are - immediately in their mind they will imagine traveling first class with you, bringing you to a business event or a work function.

If you haven't met your sugar daddy yet, there are a few great websites that you can buy replica bags on and now even shoes such as Christian Louboutins and YSL and Jimmy Choo. Now, i have to be honest I don't like fakes, they don't wear as well and will not last - but I admit they are great for a few dates, just don't expect them to last forever! I am lucky enough to have a few pieces bought either by myself or from my past SD, so I usually always wear a pair of Christian Louboutins on a date - they are timeless and sexy, and i find my dates always comment on them which is lovely. I think it is much better to buy something like this than spend a huge amount of money that you don't have, after all, if the desired effect works you will be on 5th ave before you know it!

Its never a good idea to buy a bag/shoe that is plastered in the label, inside and out. I went through a phase of wearing juicy couture head to toe with my last sugar daddy, he thought it was cute, which was lucky, because when i look back now I looked like a brightly coloured baby. I also used to own a Louis Vuitton print jacket and matching knee high boots, all in denim monogram. Double denim is never a good look - even if it is Louis Vuitton. Eeeeuhk!

So with that in mind, try to pick something classic that will go with all of your outfits, and be noticed for the right reasons, not the wrong.

Here are some good websites for harder to find designer shoes:

• http://www.jimmychoos.net/ - great for Alexander Mcqueen, YSL and Jimmy Choos. Also sell Birkins.




• http://www.manolo-blahnik.com/ - Manolos, Balmain, Giuseppe Zanotti boots.
  

They all sell pretty much sell the same stuff, just don't be disappointed as the quality is not the same as the ones you look at in the stores, and on close inspection you can tell. Good for a few wears without spending too much or for a pair that might go out of fashion quickly. There is also a good website Jess Bunny mentioned in one of her blogs so check that out too for bags.

The only thing I wouldn't suggest you copy is a designer watch, there are so many giveaways on a fake and its better to have a nice understated watch than a flashy fake designer one that looks tacky. My watch is fairly loud and flashy and for that reason I hardly wear it, sometimes I will but it makes quite a statement so I would love a simply stylish and 'timeless' Cartier or a Patek Phillippe :-)

If you have the Daddy and you are lucky enough to already have you allowance and gifts, a great place to shop is:

• http://www.net-a-porter.com/ - You name it they sell it, I almost wet myself I get so excited looking on here. Your new shoes/dress/ comes packaged in a black box with a ribbon and and if you live in the city you can get the same day delivery in just a few hours!
  

When spending a lot of your allowance still be careful on your choices, I bought a pair of Louboutins and because they are cream and suede all i do is look at them, i wore them out to dinner once and as it was raining wouldn't leave the restaurant until it stopped, just because of the shoes. Don't spend £600 for something you are too scared to wear!! A good tip is if you do invest in Louboutins, take them to Harrods or your nearest Louboutin and get the red sole grips added because the soles are smooth and it will stop the red sole from scratching.

Make up: I love Bobbi Brown and Mac, pop into a department store before a date and ask to have your make up retouched or a make up lesson. I do this all the time because they try things you may not think of and it stops you getting into a 'make up rut' which is easy to do.

Eyelashes: Love flash eyelashes and now you can have them as natural or as false as you like. For a night out with the girls I use Mac or Shu Uemura who is the expert on eyelashes! Go to the Shu Eyelash bar in London or New York and get them applied, they make your eyes pop and are so glamorous and you can try layering more than one pair at once. For a natural look, I always apply Eylure eyelash extensions myself, they are so easy, look pretty and are cheap. You can get a cat eye effect and just add a few long ones on the edges of your eyes!

Body: I swear by Roc Rentinol Anti Cellulite cream, it makes your skin clear with no dimples and leaves them feeling silky. After you use it for two weeks you drop inches and can maintain it.

I once spoke to a make up artist who worked on sex and the city, she said to mix an anti cellulite cream with a bronzing liquid to get amazing legs.

If you cant be bothered to mix it yourself try Nars body glow from Sephora - Victoria Beckham apparently uses this and i always think her body looks glowing and tanned.

Teeth: If you live in the States you will have this in your local shops, in fact you probably have amazing teeth already! You can order some online too. Its called crest whitening toothpaste with baking soda and peroxide and it starts working right away to get stains off teeth and leave them sparkling. I bring it back for friends and family by the suitcase full! Its only a few dollars too. If used with a good electric toothbrush with a whitening head, the results are even better...
Also try Arm and Hammer whitening booster which is just peroxide you brush on, i use both and think my teeth are so many shades lighter than they were. If you have your teeth whitened professionally its a great way to keep the colour up.

Hair: I like TIGI products and Aussie, but I think my hair looks best when I use a purple shampoo. Purple shampoo is for white or grey hair, and it takes out golden or brassy/yellow tones. But used on blonde hair it gives a platinum shine and keeps your highlights looking fresh. Just try not to use too much as I did once and my hair took on a blue tint! If you have dark or red hair John Frida do a really nice colour booster that works the same. I also love bumble and bumble styling products, their thickening spray is tres chic!

Fragrance: Jo Malone is my favorite, there are so many to choose from in the most beautiful packaging. I personally like Orange Blossom and I would love to own the matching Orange candles. For the day time, I like to buy from either Victoria's Secret or Bath and Body Works as they both do a great range of body sprays that are lush. My current favorite is the new festive range in Gilded Ginger Creme, it smells of Christmas and ginger bread cookies and they do a matching shimmer cream! Yum!

That is about it, thankfully as I've written so much! Tomorrow I'm off to Tokyo and when I get home I have a lot to do so I may have a little gap in my blogs. I'm hoping when I blog again il be seeing Mr Perfect and other suitors and will have plenty good stuff to post :-)

Until Then.... Love Baby Bow x x

The Sugar Seas.....

So the sugar day dates are over, phew! That was a long few days!

On the first evening I had the pleasure of meeting beautiful honey baby our fellow sugar baby blogger, If I could link to her blog I would, but I'm useless at these things - I didn't get blonde hair for nothing ;-) We drank champagne and got admired by a room full of sugar daddy's, but we were more interested in telling each other our sugar quests than hunt down fresh sugar.

There was a few problems with the underground in London, so I had to do a 'Mr Date' on a few of my potentials which sucked, I really don't like to let people down. Of course I apologised, and they asked to re-arrange.

So out of the guys I met, I am very interested in Mr Perfect and Mr Shot Myself In The Foot! Mr perfect and I had the loveliest date Ive ever had, a lunch date that lasted 4 hours. Yes, that's right, FOUR whole hours......

We met at a Harrods department store, he has a apartment around the corner and called this his 'corner shop'..... That's it, right there. That is what I want. I want to call Knightsbridge 'my road' , Harrods my 'corner shop', Nobu my 'cafe'!

When I arrived he was already there, as I had to walk so freaking far (due to the underground) in the most inappropriate shoe situation you have ever seen. I had on an all black outfit consisting of black leggings, a black long frilled shirt, a little caramel fur jacket and my caramel long over the knee boots - perfect!

But, as you can imagine, not so perfect for walking over cobbles trying to find your way to Harrods. I giggled, when I passed a 6 star hotel and the door man called me over. I walked over, teetering on the cobbled street, and he asked me for my autograph, pen and notepad in hand. Hilarious. WTF is that all about!! I cocked my head like some kind of confused poodle, looking like an airhead unintentionally while ignoring the question, asking him the way to Harrods. He asked me if id like a lift in the Rolls Royce, to which I declined and followed his directions. Crazy start to the morning already :-)

After hopping into the express lift and whizzing myself up to the top floor restaurant I saw a figure stand up as I approached the table, it was Mr perfect. We sat down and I said "I don't usually look so red and sweaty" as id walked so far, he laughed and ordered me some sparkling water. We drank wine, ate the most lovely 3 course lunch, talked and talked and talked some more. I found out so much about him, and I am so glad I spotted him from his incognito profile. He is like a diamond in the sh*t, covered by a crappy one liner profile :-)

It started to get dark, and I realised we had been sat there for hours. People had come, ate and gone, come ate and gone, including some of the royal family, who were apparently sat on the next table but I didn't even notice... He thanked me, payed on a black American Express, and asked me to see him again some time. A few hours later, I text him and we have spoken and will meet again for lunch next week. Yay :-)

Mr Shot Myself On The Foot is at the front of my mind too, and we are also meeting next week. I am still interested in Mr K, as unfortunately I didn't get to meet him. He seems promising and down to earth, so I will re arrange.

I have to say, i am loving the sugar dating at the moment. It seems like there are so many more quality, diamond sugar daddy men around, maybe its the calm of the storm after the economic downturn? Maybe its the ripple, of the great sea of sugar that is coming our way. All I know is I'm going to be at the top, riding that wave on a pink diamond encrusted surf board!

Till later Sugars, Love Baby Bow xx

The Sugar days are coming... plus more contenders!!

After my blanket coverage of e-mails described in my last post, my little inbox is still reaping the rewards with reply, after reply after reply. All makes for a very excited Sugar Baby. Although I am slightly concerned that I may have squeezed too many contenders into just two days....

Ive had to buy myself a cute pink Moleskine notebook to keep up - So organised, So unlike me!

So to add to the list of Potentials I am meeting over the coming sugar week, commencing tomorrow are, in no particular order...

Mr P.S - Mr PS, fairly blah/vanilla/ordinary, so much so that I just used initials as a name, but hopeful on the allowance front. Agreed to a 4-5K allowance, that's about a 7-8k allowance for you American baby's with the green bills :-) He wants to see me once or twice in London, and then take me on a business trip once or twice a month too for a night at a time. If first class travel is provided - I'm there. The only bad side to Mr P.S is the fact I'm not keen on his picture.... thats put me off.
Late 40's, don't get me wrong he isn't butt ugly, but he is not what I would usually go for. He looks like my doctor, and that's a bit weird. But, for allowance prospects alone he is worth a slot in sugar day one.

Meeting planned for Mr P.S - Sugar day one - Afternoon Coffee

Mr Gum Tree - Mr Gum Tree, named so as found on Gum Tree. Gum Tree is a website, a lot like Craig's List, where you can post pretty much anything. While looking around, I decided to check out the 'guys seeking girls' section - hit up a quick search for 'Sugar, Daddy, Beneficial, Arrangement' and out came Mr Gum Tree. A bit of correspondence later, a meeting planned. Is happy with monthly allowance, but didn't talk figures.... not a lot more info to give - watch this space.

Mr Gum Tree - Sugar day not yet confirmed.

Mr K: Mr K, after a few messages sent back and forth on Seeking Arrangement.com, we have decided to have dinner. I like his photo, and he seems quite kind and genuine. No talk of allowance yet, I will bring that up at dinner.

So tomorrow is the start of the sugar week. Sugar Day one: This is my itinerary!

1pm - Lunch in at a Steak House with Mr Suspenders.

Mr Suspenders has agreed to up allowance to 2,500 British Pounds per month. This secured the lunch date, and I like steak.

3pm - Drinks with Mr P.S

Evening - Drinks with fellow sugar baby blogger, Honey Baby... whilst keeping an eye out for those near by Sugar Daddy's :-)

Il then be taking off my sugar overdosed tiara, and having a sleep before I wake up, and Sugar Day two - the busiest of all commences!

Sugar Day two: Itinerary.

1pm - Lunch Date with Mr Perfect at a Knightsbridge Champagne and Oyster Bar

3.30PM - Drinks, hopefully not another lunch! With Mr Shot Myself In The Foot.

6.30pm - Dinner, with Mr K. Oyster bar.

8pm - full of too many oysters and probably more than a little bit tipsy, home!

So I shall of course update you on how these dates play out, there are some I am looking forward to more than others, but I'm a fair baby and if they have all got this far they deserve a chance. Ive never met more than one person in one day, so send me some sugar energy girlie's!

I don't think any of the dates will bring me any gifts. I never usually get gifts on the first date, like I know some sugar baby's do. I quite like this, as I know they don't expect anything from me, so neither do I from them. But of course a little gift is appreciative of your time.

I think, out of them all, Mr suspenders may bring me something (hopefully not a pair of suspenders)

From speaking to Mr Shot Myself In The Foot he is quite kinky. I say kinky but some of the things these sugar daddy's are into can be quite shocking, so its not actually that bad, fairly tame, but definitely a fetish. Because he has given me details of what he likes, I have thought of a little gift to bring him myself. It didn't cost me anything, but I know it will leave a lasting impression! :-)

So, if you see a little blonde baby running around London town over the next few days, stop and give me an expresso!

Wish me luck!

Love, From Baby Bow x x

A whole new week in Sugar Land, A whole new lot of Daddys!

This week I went back on the sites, well just Seeking Arrangement.com so far and I have had a very good turn out so far!

I find the best way to this is absolute blanket coverage! I write out one e-mail, just a template that covers what I want, expect, and provide and then as I read each profile I pick out extras to add the personal touch and become exactly what they are looking for... I think this is a great tip.

So for example, if one potential sugar daddy's profile page reads ' I want to find a classy, genuine and intelligent sugar babe' and another reads ' I want to find a fun, adventurous, sexual sugar babe' my replies to each will just echo exactly what they have written. It might sound simple, and like they would notice... but these are men we are talking about, and they really, really, don't :-) So the first I would write ' You come across as so sophisticated, intelligent and genuine, which are all very important traits to me' and the second daddy's reply might be all about fun, spontaneity and sexual undertones!

So after my blanket coverage of about 100 messages, I got some very decent replies. Next week I am having a sugar week - so let the sugar overdose commence!

I wont introduce you to all of my potentials, as there are only a select few who got through to round two - a passionate/classy/fun/simple/genuine.... date with baby bow! Here are the contenders:

Contender one : Mr Shot myself in the foot.

Mr Shot myself in the foot is named so because he wanted to talk about allowances before our first meeting. I agreed and mentioned the amount I would be happy with - around 4k of shiny English pounds. He agreed, somewhat excitedly - which made me examine his profile again. Turns out his 'budget' was 10,000 - 20,000 k so I just shot my little Gina covered foot off.

Its not so bad, I redeemed myself by saying 'its not all about the £ to me, a connection and mutual respect and chemistry is paramount, and Id rather start like that and see how things progress......' which is actually true, 4k is more than I used to imagine and id be more than happy with that. My eyes are bigger than my bank account! :-)

Meeting with Mr shot myself in the foot planned for next week, sugar day one/two morning coffee.

Contender two : Mr perfect.

Mr perfect, named so because he really is sugar daddy gold if everything he says/I have read/ is true. Mr perfect had one of those typical, one liner, boring profiles that hardly explains anything at all, but his location, net worth etc looked promising - so into his sugar box went one of my blanket coverage messages.

What came next took me by surprise, an absolutely delightful message to which i replied and a few hours later we had a phone conversation. This man is amazing to talk to, we spoke for over an hour and he is so charming, funny and polite. By far the best sugar phone conversation I've so far had.

Mr perfect, in true perfect style owns many property's, London apartments, countryside manors, yachts moored, Asian and American homes, the list went on, and on..... and on. He drives and owns cars, boats and planes. He isn't married. He is good looking. He is funny, seems sane. He is younger than I expected, in his 40's.??? too perfect???? We will have to see.

Meeting planned, Sugar day two, Lunch.

Contender three: Mr Suspenders

Mr Suspenders, named so as he seems to be obsessed by suspenders. Or stockings for the American baby's across the pond.

I have actually had correspondence with him before, which I think he has forgotten funnily enough, and he offered me an arrangement in the past. An arrangement of only 1k. Or 2k for the American baby's again. :-)

I'm not sure this is enough, unless he was a part time daddy and id see him only once or twice a month, but at lunch I'm going to make it clear id like double. In fact, il go in higher, so we can negotiate 'down' to double. Aim high, shoot low, that's my motto.

The thing that puts me off Mr Suspenders is he is really into showing off a girl. He likes a girl in his eyes, to dress provocatively, in my eyes - like a slut.

Now this baby is very into her fashion, and I wouldn't be seen ever, ever, ever walking around in just my suspenders a lady has to have some mystique, some allure. Not walking around with tomorrows washing for half of the Ivy to see!

Meeting planned : Sugar day one : Lunch.

That's as far as I have got, but it seems like a feast. In fact, I'm pretty sure il need to go to double Pilate's following this. I'm even considering two lunches in a row on one day, Mr suspenders will be so lucky if i come in elasticated jeans.

On the back burner are Mr showbiz, who has got a profile on SA at the moment, so I want to get back in there, and a few NY daddy's that I might meet on my next trips, but I'm holding out for the UK daddy's, they have my priority.

My french manicured nails cannot possibly type any longer, so il update with preparations for the sugar week soon!

Adios! Baby Bow x x x

Bow the real life barbie... Mr Date D.O.A

Fellow Sugars,

I have been dealt quite a blow this morning, by Mr date, naturally. But first, I will give you a little background information. Just so you can appreciate quite how shocking this is.

Since my last post, things went from bad, to perfect with Mr Date. We were in constant contact, initiated by him, from the first goodmorning to the last goodnight. We had spoken every day on the phone for the last week, planned a trip away together, laughed and enjoyed the thought of seeing each other again. Apologies had been made, and an ultimatum given.

I had explained to Mr Date that whilst I was waiting for him to get his act together, this had wasted about 2 months of my sugar search. I wanted to know when/where/how an allowance was to start - he called me once I had sent this message - I was shopping in New York at the time.

'Lets see each other Monday darling, and we can start from there, I promise'

I gave Mr Date a chance to back out if he had cold feet. I explained that i wouldn't be mad, but there must have been a reason for all these excuses and let downs. If he wasn't sure about what he wanted, he could just say. He replied ' I want you, and only you. 100%' something along those lines, he had his chance to exit the dignified way and he stuck.

So I spent the rest of my week excited at the thought, it was really happening! We were to see each other on Monday and the arrangement was to start

We planned on meeting for this lunch time - today..... as in a few hours time. I was to meet him on the corner of Sloan Square, and we would go to an exclusive restaurant I had told him I liked. After, we would enjoy each other and spend the afternoon at a hotel he was booked into and later I planned on meeting fellow sugar baby blogger Honey Baby (Honey Baby introduced myself and Mr date, so we planned to meet as he told me he would like to take us both out in the future to thank her for our meeting - in Paris he suggested!!)

I have to be honest, I had a feeling something wasn't quite right. Not only for the obvious fact he had let me down one too many times, but the way in which he acted and spoke. He would go from hot to cold, constantly, one moment nothing at all, and the next sending me message after message ' I miss you' - 'I could fall in love with you' 'I like you so so much' 'I want this to be a long and lasting relationship'...

A little while ago Mr Date had mentioned a skin care product that is only sold now in the USA, as it was discontinued in the UK. He asked me if I ever saw it on my trips to pick some up for him. Whilst in NYC I came across this product, by Keilhs, and decided to buy him some as a gift. I think sometimes its nice to show you can give a little gift too, and in most cases I still think that this is a great idea. Turn the tables a little bit. Show how you can care/listen/surprise too!

Yesterday, I spent the day with my father. Mr Date text me to ask me what I was doing, and I told him ' I'm spending the day with my father at his golf club' He told me id have a great time and continued to text me all day and all night, hot not cold, promising the next day would happen.

Then I woke up this morning. I cant say I was full of excitement, because lets be honest after the 7th let down even the most positive sugar baby in the world would have had apprehension's. My phone bleeped, and I saw the message on my screen. This was it.

(by the way i wouldn't usually post an exact message but seeing as Mr date has acted with no consideration for my feelings or shown any respect I cannot see one reason why I shouldn't)

'Baby Bow, after mentioning your day with your father yesterday who I suspect is younger than me I cant go ahead with this I'm sorry. You are a very beautiful young lady with a delightful personality but too young. I know you are going to hate me for this and suspect I have been messing you around. I haven't. Its taking considerable resolve to come to this decision. I must be mad but that's how it is. I will delete your details and not bother you again, please don't reply. Take care and I wish you every success for the future. Goodbye x x x x x '

OMG FML. - Oh yes Mr date, I wont reply to that. You have just wasted two months of my life I wont get back, but Il honor you with the silence of your phone not alerting you of any further correspondence from me. You may speak about you wife/children all you like, but I may never mention my own family... AS IF.

So I replied.

'For future reference, if your going to 'like' a young woman and ask her to send you pictures of herself, call her mobile while she is over seas numerous times, ask her to call you, arrange then re arrange then cancel dates at least once a week, expect her to be exclusive to you during this time, initiate sexual messages, take into consideration the work she has missed whilst trying to be available for you, the preparation of looking good for you each time, and the respect and patience she has shown you... the least, and I mean very least, you could do was to take her for planned lunch and chat about this face to face. A text does not suffice.

I know this at 22, I wonder how at 55 you missed it? I think i have been naive, and you are most likely not what you seemed.'

So there you have it, myself and Mr date. Over before it started. Dead on arrival.

I'm also going to take a picture of the gift I bought him, which he knows about, and e-mail it to him. I'm not sure why, I just think that would make me feel better! If he was a good man he would compensate me for all this time spent and gifts etc.... but I know that would not happen.

So ladies, who did Mr Date think I was? Did he think I was from the sugar baby garden, grown from a seed, ageless and frozen in time for him to pick and use at his will? Did he think a stork flew over London, dropped me off, and left me to fend for myself? Did he believe I was a real life barbie, born of no parents, just packaged up for him by mattel?

What ever Mr date thought, he thought wrong. Men like him are ten a penny, and I can have another him in a minute :-) Except I don't want another him, I want a real man.

So there you have it, goodbye Mr Date. It was a bother having you. But I learnt some lessons and I have picked myself back up, re adjusted my tutu, shook up my hair, and dusted off the louboutins.

Watch out boys!!!!!!!!!!

Love always, Baby Bow x x x